My boyfriends always wants anal?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have recently tried anal sex and had tried probably 4 times and it hurt so bad i made him pull out right away, he always wants to try because "its so tight". Then the next time it didn't hurt to bad so I let him keep going. Well now he always wants to have anal.. I enjoy it too but only for a bit and its nice to switch to vaginal. He kind of makes me feel in his actions like he gets upset when I make him stop. It feels like to me he just wants my ass not my pussy.. like its not tight enough for him.

[PsyNoodles]

Does he know the word consent? Does he understand the definition? I mean seriously.

Yeah it feels so tight but that means it's probably much more potential for it to hurt her. Does he even have the first idea how to have anal sex?

Regardless I would start with letting him no means no, and if he doesn't like it then he's definitely not getting anything else. If he bitches about it let him bitch. Only would show he's REALLY a douche.

I hope for your sake he's just horny and doesn't really think too much past that maybe he's ignorant, immature, I don't know, but no offense!

Like I told someone earlier, nothing to do with sex should be pressured it should all be at will. Anything else is just one step closer to rape, sorry.

Hope this helped you heh. <3

[Anonymous]

Another immature stud. Vagina is built to expand and adjust according to size of Penis. Ass is not made for that purpose. And by the way you're saying sound like sexual assault on you. And I am sure that the guy has a big one that is why you are facing trouble. Do you know his size. And yeah do you empty your rectum and gel it entirely and maybe he is inserting in wrong direction. And again and again hitting on your rectal wall. Tell him if he wants anal he should keep sense of direction. Rectum is like funnel he should know what his direction should be or it can be badly painful and start with slow and easy sex and tell him to feel you from inside and understand what should be his direction in inserting.

[Asker]

Probably 6.5 inches. It isn't sexual assault at all. Just makes me feel like he doesn't want vaginal sex very much

[Opinion Owner]

His dick is normal. Some guys are into ass and also afraid what if vaginal makes you pregnant. Well just next time you do tell him to go slow and feel and explore you he must not hit on your rectal wall. For example show him the rectal area in human digestive system with images from Google. And tell him to go straight. Once he learn to do it nicely and straight you both will like to have anal for hrs. Try having anal in different position maybe you position is making him hit the rectal wall which gives you pain.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he's gay lol

[Asker]

I know he ia definitley not gay..

[guy778]

You don't know he might be gay

[MrCrimsonWolf]

Yeah! is selfish and immature of him to get mad at you, sex is about 2, not only him.

[JackKerouac77]

Why don't you just tell him to buy an anal fleshlight and stop getting all up in your grill, literally?

There's a sex toy for every bizarre quirk these days, no need to get crazy.

[reptocarl]

I hope you make him use lots of lube. I've heard this complaint from women before that their vagina isn't good enough anymore. Its your body and you have the ultimate say what goes where and let him know that.

[gapminder]

Yeah it's new and exciting to him. But I still say the V is the best thing ever invented.

[Cowboy6666]

Ring your finger like a hole, insert his penis in it,,,, or how about tittyfuck?

[Blondiepop]

I love anal whats wrobg with it?

[Elliot0_07]

He's gonna look else where and when that time comes don't blame him but only yourself for being so selfish and boring to him.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he's gay.

[Anonymous]

Sounds selfish to me. It is not about him it is about both of you... Immature and selfish of him to be this way.

[Opinion Owner]

Just refuse it all together.

[Opinion Owner]

Do it on your terms, not his. Make it a special occasion when you want it. He shouldn't bug you or pester you. Ask to fuck his ass all the time, or tell him to use a dildo when he's fucking you make him see how it feels lol