My brother's friend is attracted to me?

[Anonymous]

Ok the other night my parents were not home so my brother had a few friends over. He is 18 and his friends are all 17 or 18. I am 16. Anyways they were all hanging out in the living room and I was in my room and one of his friends knocked on my door. Let's call him steven. So I open my door and steven said can I come in. I asked him where my brother was and he said in the living room so I just let him. I didn't want 2 make my brother mad by talking to his friends but I wasn't gonna be rude and tell him to leave. Steven walks in my room and sits on my bed and I sit on my dress and just wait. He tells me that he came in to tell me something really important. So I just waited more and he got up and walked to me. Um well how I was sitting my legs wera a little bit open and my dresser was high enough to level me with him. He came up to me and put his hands on my knees and kinda opened my legs more so he was standing between them and up against me. I always thought he was really hott so I didn't want to stop him but I just put my hands against him to move him back a little. Then he told me that he has liked me for a while and he didn't want to do anything because of my brother. Then he leaned forward so his face was right in front of mine and said I can't stand seeing you all the time and not doing anything. And he kissed my cheek. I was so surprised but I kinda liked it. Then he just said think about it and turned to leave. I got off the dresser and went to stop him before he left and I turned him around and kissed him. He got really happy and picked me up and put me against the wall and kept kissing me. And he got hard so he put me down and said he needed to stop before something happened.then he left my room. Sorry for the long story but my question now is should I date him and tell my brother how I feel or should I just forget it because he is kinda my brothers best friend? Oh also he is 17 but going to be 18 in a few weeks so I don't know if I can date him. I really like him and I always have I just didn't know he ever liked me. Would it make my brother mad or should I go for it? And if I should then how do I do that? Like do I just tell his friend yes I want to date you or some other way?

[ilovelegs]

That's sweet how that all happened. Don't be worrying that just because he's only less than 2 years older than you that you're just some little girl and way too young to be dating him. Both your ages are just fine. Not knowing how your brother will react I'd just say to keep in touch with "Steven" and let him know that you really enjoyed that night when he came into your room and that you also had feelings for him. Tell him you dilemma with your brother and ask him to bring it up to him because there's no sense you doing that and then having Steven change his mind. Once you can confirm with Steven that he'll say something to your brother, just give your brother a hint that you like one of his friends.. and then tell him which one. You have nothing to be ashamed about and your brother doesn't have to lose a friend over this. You have nothing to hide because your friendship with Steven doesn't have to infringe on the friendship between your brother and him. Just proceed slowly but surely, ok?

[paintballguy]

I would just let your brother know that you two are going to be dating and that you really want it. You don't want your brother to get mad at him thinking he is forcing you to do things. This guy must respect you because he stopped and left after making out.

Now you do need to find out about laws to make sure you don't get him in trouble.

[Sillysid13]

Aw girl, honestly, I think that is really cute.

Okay. As far as dating him. You should.

And I'm happy that he didn't go past your limits, which means he respects you!:)

Him being 18, well you first need to talk to your brother and see how he feels about it!

The if he desides to date you then you do need to check with your parents.

Because your underage, you will want to have your parents and his parents to okay it, so you or him can't get into trouble.

He sounds, sweet, just watch out, because he's older you know he's gonna want it.

Good luck girl, hope it works for you!:)

[anniekaitlyn]

I would tell your brother first, but expect the worst from it.

He probably will be against it, if his friend is an asshole. But, he shouldn't object if he knows his friend is a good guy.

Careful.

[ggazelles]

If you like him, then go for it. You should be the one to talk to your brother though, because that way you can explain that you're into it, and that it's not just an older guy pressuring you or anything.

[greatadvice1987]

if he's 18 in a couple weeks and you're still 16 I don't know what the laws are where you live but I would check them out... my friend got into A LOT of trouble with a thing like that because the girl lied to him, she did look 18 no doubt but you've always got to be careful

[LanaArtist]

omg. you should date him.

pls tell me that you are dating him xD

that's such a cute story.

[Asker]

: ) we are dating now. we talked 2 my brother together and first he was mad but now he's happy I'm with his best friend instead of some guy he doesn't know.

[LanaArtist]

Yay that's good. I'm happy 4 u

[1FastFC]

Im pretty sure your brother will get mad. I had a friend that tried to kiss my little sister and we got into a big fight over it. I seriously wanted to beat him down so bad...so I'd say you should probably talk to your brother about it first.

Actually if he really likes you , you should tell HIM to talk to your brother and make him do all the work.

[jenayee]

awww hun that's cutee!

yea I agree he respects you!

if he left the room.

and I would talk to your brother maybe he's cool with it and ya know

f*** the laws

who's honestly gonna turn you in?

haha

alright bye girl

hope things work out!

[Dreamy-Girl]

Go for it talk to your brother he`ll understand.

[whatsupbabies]

my best friend has a hot sister and if I would doing anything with her we wouldn't be best friends so you can data him but do you want to brake up ur bro friendship

[Anonymous]

me and my bff always end up dating our brothers friends and they never get mad really because they think were trying to get rides bt depends on both of there personalities