Sounds like you didn't know exactly what you were doing.
Anal can be great, my SO loves it, but needs 1. Lube. Get some nice Astroglide at Walgreens or something. 2. Relaxation. If you're clenching them cheeks, gonna be a rough one for you.
you're probably swollen, will go away soon. Starting with a finger to get warmed up to the sensations and penetration would be a good idea. Perpaps have him slip in a digit or two while going down on you (fingers lubed of course). Then lube up his hot dog and put it in the bun.
As far as lubes go, silicone stays slick the longest, my personal recommendation. Water based isn't bad, but can dry out a lot faster.
Clitoral stimulation during anal is great, so feel free to play with yourself while he is inside (if he doesn't have a good angle to do it himself). Have fun!
This is why I speak out against anal penetration. It can cause problems like hemorrhoids and anal fissures. However, it is doubtful you caused any permanent injury from one attempt. It is likely your voluntary (the one you can see) and involuntary (the one you can't see) anal sphincters are stretched and the tissue is abraded. This causes temporary discomfort.
If your symptoms persist longer than a few days, you may need to consult a physician. And in the future, stay with vaginal sex. It is typically a lot less traumatic!
~JSmith
Correction, if he only penetrated you with the head of his penis, this would only affect your voluntary sphincter. The involuntary one is about 4 inches inside of you. Still, just an inch or two of penetration can aggravate your anal canal. Most hemorrhoids form right at the base of the anus, just inside. I missed the fact that penetration was shallow. ~JSmith
Thanks for the MHO! ~JSmith
it seems you've done it incorrectly. It can hurt like a bitch, but the feeling should go away shortly. If it's still there in a week, I'd recommend talking to a doctor. I know, awkward, but it could be serious if it lasts so long. Look up how to properly do anal and it can actually be very pleasant, but make sure you don't rush. Care is key here.
Yes, you probably damaged the delicate tissue in the rectum slightly. It should stop feeling like that in a few days. If it doesn't, or gets worse, see a doctor.
Next time more lube, more prep with fingers, etc.
More lube, more play beforehand... sloooowwwwww n easy. you control the pace and tell him what’s too much and when he needs to push more. Don’t do more than you are comfortable with.
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Did you use plenty of lube?
We didn't use any
Ouch! Get some lube, I promise it's better with lube.
I refuse to try it again. It's dirty
Might be the anal. Have you no experience? You might've been swollen a bit from the attempt. I recommend using a set of buttplugs (of varying diameters), and using them to stretch you out, correctly, over the period of a week's use. Use lots of lube, too. Best of luck. (Oh, if you want to make sure you boyfriend can "relate" - get a strapon!)
It will pass soon
Yeah, it's because you tried anal. That feeling will go away. I have heard women complaining about the side effect of anal lasting the better part of a week. You weren't getting drilled in the butt though, so it probably won't last that long.
He might have left his dick up in your ass and he hasn't noticed yet to pick it up. just give him time don't rush things.
You're constipated. Take an extra strength laxative and go for a run. That should loosen you right up.
if he was pushing hard and you were resisting your brown eye might be a little swollen.. Read up on starting anal, there is a right and wrong way to do it. If its not pleasurable, your doing it wrong..
Omg he did it wrong and broke your anal ring. Usually a good solid shit will put it back so eat lots of fibre.
If that dosent8 work a surgeon is going to have to sew everything back in place
it will feel better in a day or so
maybe his dick broke, and got stuck in your butt hole now
You either didn't warm up enough or didn't use enough lube during anal.
will get better. Your rectum will recover soon.
Probably doodie in your booty
lube and try is best.
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The hole was little it took time to recover so your feeling like that
It ks normal.
Your anus is still recovering from him putting in just the tip. Depending on how big he is it will take longer for the 1st time but if you continue doing it your anus will get used to it and go back to normal faster.
Anal takes a hell of a lot of prep. Lots of lube is needed and the guy should go slow af whem he inserts his penis. You should also use a buttplug and fingers to help open your asshole slowly.
Chances are you just didn't prep right and also it's normal to feel that way the first time trying anal...
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