My cousin heard me masturbating... what do I do?

[Anonymous]

ok last night I was talking to my boyfriend on the phone...& I started masturbating... & she heard me saying STUFF I didn't want ANYONE but him to hear. She went & woke my mom up 3 times... saying that she needed to come check on me...? what was that all about... it was OBVIOUS what I was doing... my mom already knows I masturbate... & its really none of my cousins business.. if my cousin does know I masturbate she will start acting weird around me so I was gonna say me & my friend called my friends boyfriend & me started doing that as a prank... But now I don't want to come out of my room because I'm embarrassed. idk what to do! please help ):

[smith2267]

Hehe. Sorry! I don't mean to be amused, I just can't help it. lol. Really, I feel your pain, I have sympathy for you...but it is a little funny!

How old is she? She might not have discovered masturbation herself, so she might not understand it. Or her mom might not be as understanding as yours. Maybe she has been punished for masturbating.

Don't lie to cover it up, and don't be embarrassed. Masturbation is natural and healthy, and it is safe sex. If your cousin doesn't know this, it just means you are more mature than she is.

[Asker]

It is kinda funny haha

[smith2267]

Wish there was some way to report you for that comment....2 people gave my reply a favorable rating, and there was nothing "stalker"-ish about it. Guess you have some growing up to do.

[RyeLee]

Whoaa girl! I'm sure there are plenty of creepers on here, but this guy totally didn't say anything that would imply that he's one of them! Its true that when you get older/more mature, things like that become less and less significant, and its easy to laugh them off. And I have absoultely no clue how you got stalking out of this. lol.

[Mayor-of-ESL]

Fuck him...not only will he thank you...but it end anything might want to tell anyone about it.

[Shantal2501]

No offense to your cousin but I think there is something pent up inside her that you might not be aware of. Maybe she want's to masturbate but doesn't know how, and is upset that you are doing it because she wants to. Another reason may be that she doesn't do it because she thinks its wrong, but deep down inside she wants to, but can't because she isn't comfortable the way you are with yourself. That's just the vibe I'm getting and don't take her too seriously. Don't stop what your doing because it is completely natural and normal.

[victoriaxxx]

First depending on your cousins age you need to be mature and just laugh it off. You're right it isn't any of her business. Don't let it bother you though. I'm sure she's masturbated too before we all do it's human nature...not saying that it's right or wrong but it's not for someone else to stick their nose in unless they see a real problem with it

[gravygirl]

How old is your cousin? Is it possible she really didn't know what those noises were? Oh, and as an aside, is it possible you could keep it down until you have a place of your own?

[Asker]

I KNOW she knew what it was that's why I can't figure out why she told my mom to come check on me... I mean its not like I can sneak someone through my window... its a VERY VERY high window. she's 19,

[gravygirl]

Well I don't know then. Maybe she just doesn't like you and wants to get you in trouble.

[Asker]

But she couldn't get me in trouble because my mom already knows.

[weasel327]

Well talk to her about it and see what the deal is. ask her if she does it and if she does it tell her its healthy and to try it or just keep her noise of of something that feels great. (so I've heard haha)

[wannabe]

say that

[face1234]

uh

how does she know you masturbate?

your mom I mean

and isn't that weird?

[Asker]

No not really....? every daughter usually asks their mom about masturbating... so I mean if your daughter asks that .. its kinda clear she's gonna do it.

[face1234]

Lol good point i guess I'm just not used to it my familys not like that

[cgraves561]

Ask him to join you

[the-sweetest-thing]

Maybe just laugh about it, and kinda just brush it off like this : "I can't believeeee you actually believed that!?" hahaha

It is an embarassing situation, but if you can laugh about it, then I'm sure others won't really think much of it.

[Anonymous]

You right none of her business but do you know if she masturbate or not
Just maybe she like to help you cum together
What you really need to do go in there rub her pussy