My ex is telling hurtful things - what does this mean?

I dumped this guy it really was not even a relationship more like a friend with benefits but I complete cut off no more contact what so ever. and now he calls me to tell me to clean my vagina and that I look ugly naked and I have a long face oh and that I am fat I weighed 136 at the time,but he has me so stressed with him harassing me I lost 10 lbs and now weigh 126. He tells me he's now sleeping w/my friend I told him I didn't care and to stop calling me. I am not insecure but was hurtful I know I look OK. cause I am constantly getting compliments from male and females that I am hot, but I say not. anyways now he is calling the man in my life @ his job telling him lies that I am still f#@% him and still seeing him. why is he doing this?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • He is still upset at your rejection for him, he still has feelings for you and wasn't ready for the relationship to finish, and because you hurt him, he is throwing everything at you to hurt you, but if you show no concern about his thoughts he will stop because people will see him as the knob end he is, and they will believe you over him because of his behavior , so try not to let it upset you, just think of him as the weird guy who won't go away, and tell your boyfriend to ignore him, because if your current fella listens to this other guy, then he's a worthless tosser to, but for you, ignore the efforts to hurt you, and just reply, "Yeah OK weirdo" everyone will follow suit after you address him as being strange, make people believe that he's the one with the genital problem hence the reason you dued him, this will make him realize that you can cause as much if not more damage than he can,good luck,x

  • if he keeps harassing you you might try to take legal actions against him, because it might get worse and he'll try to physically abuse or worse. In many cases like this it's more likely to get worse then him backing off.

    Go to the police and report him, they'll call him in or go to his house and have a word with him, if he's still doing it, report it another time then press charges.

    You know it's the right thing to do, so do it !

Most Helpful Girls

  • He feels bad because he got dumped he feels low so that's why

    His trying to make you feel bad because that's how he feels.IGNORE him

    He needs to handle the situation more mature..

  • Revenge probably. He's low. I think you should ignore him if he makes contact with you again.

  • it means he is a but hurt and a douche. Be glad you dumped him

    • Thanks for the BA :)

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  • because he is hurt that you dumped him ...and possibly a sociopath...

  • Also think: If he goes on, take legal actions. He feels hurt by you dumping him which means that you were really attractive to him. Now he knows what he lost... Draw a line, go to police and rid him out of your life.

  • Well it tells us that you certainly did the right thing when you dumped him...if he keeps it up need to change your number, block him, or file a report...I would think he should be old enough now to handle rejection...I mean none of us like it...but it happens...and now...calling your new bf...this is kind of like "Dog In The Manger"..i.f I can't have it no one should be to either..):

  • He's deranged. That's about it...

  • He does this because he is bitter and because you are willing to answer the phone and listen. Stop doing that. Sever your contact completely. Change residences if you need to. He is wasting your time and contaminating your life.