My friend gave me head...how do I tell him it's a one time thing?

[Anonymous]

So this past weekend one of my gay friends was over and we were partying and drinking. He has only came out to me and his ex girlfriend and nobody else knows and he said he would definitely suck me off if I ever wanted it. At first there was no way I would do that but then I got to thinking its a free no questions asked blow job that I don't have to work for. So when he was about to leave (after drinking) I ran out to his car to try and stop him and I got in. He just started rubbing me through my pasts and I got hard. Then he pulled it out and started going down on me. I just let him. It was really good head (I'm sorry to admit) and I said "wow just think all the time we could have been doing this we didn't know" when I was caught up in the moment. After I finished I went back inside and felt really guilty and gross. I was disgusted with myself and I know he is going to want more. What should I do or say that will let him know it was just a one time thing?

[lefthand]

It may be not be a onetime thing because you may want it again. There is nothing wrong with that as long as you stay honest. There are a lot of guys who occasionally let other men blow them just because its good head and it really is just a sex act that is pretty much over after the incident. Relax, it doesn't make you gay, it makes you human and male.

Don't get mean about it and don't say things you will regret later. He took a big risk on you, please be kind about it.

[boi818]

What??? One man blowing another man..sounds pretty gay to me.. idk..

[lefthand]

It all pretty much feels the same. Its fairly common for people to enjoy the benefits of someone else's same sex attractions without having to reciprocate. Its a physical act that is pretty much gender neutral from the prospective of the recipient. If I was getting a professional massage, it makes no difference to me who is massaging my back if they do a good job. It requires no action on my part so preferences don't come into play. Sophisticated analysis but sometimes that's necessary.

[KandleGuii2]

Welcome To The Gay Club, Straight Men Dont Receive Oral From Other Men, Hope He Never Tries To Blackmail You...

[Anonymous]

If it comes up again, just be like, "I'm sorry, but even though that happened, I am only into women. It's really not you, I'm just straight." Explain that a blowjob is a blowjob regardless of gender since you don't see the person, really. And also mention that people do crazy stuff when they're drunk. Hopefully he will understand.

[Anonymous]

if he wanted to do you you again just tell him directly in the face you felt gross and you didn't like the feeling afterwords so you are not repeating it again anyways...

[MissAnon]

i wouldn't anything about it unless it comes up again.. then let him know that you were caught up in the moment and it was a one time thing.

[boi818]

i almost threw up in my mouth reading your story... wowwww.. umm

I say stay as far away as you can from this guy..and if it ever comes up.. just let him know..it is not to be spoken about...ever..

omg.. mannn...weird stuff...

[l-hedoniste]

"About last night..." Blah, blah, blah. Most made the speech before.

If you haven't, the rest goes,"...it was a mistake, I regret it, and it won't happen again. Sorry to mislead you."

[Anonymous]

All I gotta say is...WOW! Haha.