My gag reflex is killing my relationship, please help me.

[snookiebaba]

Hello, So I have been with my fella for a while now, and I have given him head only once, when I was slightly drunk on his birthday, I loved it, but I kept gagging, And had to get sick due to the beer I had drank... This upset me so I was also crying. But that's not the point my question is, My gag reflex does any one know about this and why it is as sensitive or what I can do to give my boyfriend head properly with out gagging or nearly getting sick on him, I really would like to please him he means a lot to me and can get me off easily , and if anyone has tips and tricks it would be majorly appreciated! thank you so much =D

[Anonymous]

Every time I brushed my teeth at night, when I finished I spent 30 seconds just brushing the back of my tongue till I gagged. Do this every night, and get further and further back till you don't gag anymore. Make sure you cover the whole back of the tongue and not just part of it.

I gave up a week or two in for various reasons, but it was starting to work. Just keep at it :)

Until then, when you go down on your boyfriend only take as much in your mouth as you can without gagging. Spend more time licking, and pay attention to his balls too. Good head is possible without deep throating :)

[ktfloss]

-try it sober

-practise

-breath through your nose

-clench your left thumb in your left hand - make a fist

-lift your legs, tighten your lower body muscles

-use a numbing throat spray or a similiar tooth-pain gel on your soft palette

-put a little table salt on your tongue

-hum (the vocal noise)

-try it later in the day

-relax

whatever you do, do so responsibly.

[snookiebaba]

thank youu =D will try it out =D

[ktfloss]

Glad to help ^-^

[tessamarie]

maybe instead of deep throating which causes gag reflex a lot of the time.. maybe you can start at the tip and very slowly make your way down stay where your comfortable and I'm sure he will find it pleasurable. or maybe you can practice on a cucumber...?

[snookiebaba]

Hiyaa, ehhmm its not even deep throating I mean it gets to about two inches in my mouth and I gag,.. then I cry because I wanna give him head and I wanna puke at the same time because of my gag reflex... and a cucumber? sounds interesting he will find that amusing he reasures me that its okay and he understands but I still wanna try because I'm a trooper that way and thanks =D I will give the cucumber thing a bash =D

[Anonymous]

Yeah, I once had a girl throw up on my d*** because I'm hung like a buffalo, and rammed it down her throat too fast. Just learn to relax your tongue. Practice with a toilet plunger stick, dildo, cucumber or a shotgun barrel. Just stick some object down your throat, in and out, til the gagging disappears and you don't over salivate. Least that's how most girls learn. That way when they met up with their boyfriends, they're not vomiting on their d*** or drooling excessively. (not that I mind the drooling, but some guys don't).

[snookiebaba]

I didn't actually blow my guts in his lap we were on a hill in public well we were shaded and no one could see us and it was at night I got up and lent over a ridge and blew my guts... it was the beer not his c**k, thanks tho

[tiffanymarie_19]

THAT DOESN'T WORK FOR ALL WOMEN LMAO SOME CAN'T GET RID OF THE GAG REFLEX LOL

[Opinion Owner]

tiff...practice, practice, practice

[Cupcakecutie0]

Practice with a vegetable but also I found this article, its not really about how not to gag. But it does help with blow jobs.

link

[snookiebaba]

Thanks =D

[Cupcakecutie0]

Also your a good girlfriend for trying to learn this.

[snookiebaba]

Thankks =D I am a stubbourn trooper... I do try my best =D

[jimmydean72]

Breathe through your nose.

[snookiebaba]

it doesn't help I always breath through my nose it won't help trust me because I was

[tiffanymarie_19]

YOU CAN'T BREATH THROUGH ANYTHING WITH A DICK IN YOUR THROAT LOL

[armymanEOD]

Take your thumb on your right hand. Place it over your pointer finger. Keep pointer finger straight and tense. Push down on the pointer finger with thumb in between knuckle and first bend. That should eliminate your gag reflex(: