My girlfriend called me baby d***.. :(

[Anonymous]

we got into a fight about her sexual past, she never told me she had had sex with about 25 guys before me and when she told me it really hurt me and I told her I don't know if I could continue the relationship, then she said "ok go cry about it baby d***, you're the smallest guy I've ever been with" we have (or had) been dating for half a year and my penis is 4.9 inches... it's not long I know but what can I do about that? nothing... why hurt me about it when I'm already self conscious?

[themastaplan]

wow...WOW...wow

you will never get over that with her, every time you go to have sex you'll think of that

im sooooooooo sorry this happened to you, how dare she attack your manhood like that

she said it because she knew it would hurt and she went right for your heart...

i can't believe this phuckin kunt said that to you,...it makes me so mad and hurt for you...im sorry bro, no women should say that to you weather its true or not

its not the size that matters its how you work it! keep your freakin head up and go find a women who you can satisfy...no wonder 5 inches isn't good enough for her, she's obviously a slut...

find a women who will treat you with some respect, a women who will love you for who you are, a women you can make love with and where its not hte size by teh connection you two make in bed that makes it so magical

dont let this get you down, work your d and use it properly, you should have no problem satisfying a girl...afterall its only like 3 inches to her gspot...once you find a women you can "connect" with in bed, it won't matter...

please don't be down on yourself, she's a selfish bitch to say that to you...

tell her that not only you but youve talked to other guys that have slept with her and tis like "a hotdog down a hallway"...that is, if you want to stoop to her level, id just forget her and move on bro...what a tool she is

KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!

[Anonymous]

I can understand the hurt on all sides. Firstly, if she slept with 25 guys, she should have had the discretion of not speaking about it. A lot of guys (and gals) feel insecure on hearing about the sexual pasts of their partners. If this hurts, or makes us feel insecure, why talk about it? (I'm not even sitting in moral judgement about her 25 guys, but she could have kept discrete about it.)

At another level, I really treat with disdain the women who are obsessed about a guy's "small d***". It is something one comes with, you can't change it (not easily at least). So why make a big issue out of it? After motherhood, a woman might have a loose vagina... but that doesn't mean we should be commenting on it, or criticising it! Actually, with skill, sex can be fun regardless of the size of a di*k. A skilled lover can achiever much more regardless of his size.

I don't know what you said to her, but it was definitely unfair for her to rub you the wrong way on this. You should do your best to forget the insult, knowing that it means nothing. It was probably just her way of hitting back or scoring a point on you! Don't let it bother you!

[Girl000]

First of all she sounds like she's a b*tch and childish. Sorry but it's true. Second I have been with a guy of your size and had GREAT sex, some of the best sex I've EVER had! So please don't let her mean comments effect you... some very lucky ladies could be missing out on some great sex with you!

[brunette1cookie]

I don't blame you for being mad. Having a few partners before you is one thing, but 25 is not something you keep hidden. Seriously, I think she crossed the line and unless you get a very sincere apology and talk about it calmly, you should seriously consider ending the relationship.

[katiesmuff]

The world is a big place and you know very little of what happens in it. 25 guys by 21 is a pretty good number, but nothing that doesn't happen and just so I can get this straight what would you call one of your guy buddies lucky enough to stick his penis in 25 girls by age 21?

[ROTFLMFAO]

man whore. I'd feel sorry for such a guy.

[katiesmuff]

At least your keeping them on equal ground. Not sure why you would feel sorry for him, he is the one getting to experience all the good p*ssy out and available to you guys.

[ROTFLMFAO]

well, I prefer hot girls. desperate girls who f*** many guys aren't hot. he's getting to experience cheap p****. I'm not really jealous ;) by the way, one of my guy friends is a so called man whore. he's f***ed many girls before, but none of them were hot. I'm much more jealous of guys who have a hot girlfriend. I'd rather f*** one hot girl than 25 average/ugly girls. it isn't that hard to understand ;)

[lv4lv]

I agree with ROTF, I would call him a whore.

[SunSeeker]

I agree with ROTF, no man sticks his junk in 25+ quality vaginas. Nope, just doesn't happen. He's a man whore because obviously to make that number he lowered his standards significantly. AND...even if it was 25 quality women, he's still a man whore because obviously you can't have any kind of commitment whatsoever.

[valleygirl]

i mean't I am not attacking or placing ridicule

[Angelyn]

25 guys by 21 ? if your career is whoring, I'd say you are kicking ass at it..

[valleygirl]

oh pls you should hush your immature ass because it's you that can't look pass someones past but you wanna get some kind of sympathy because a girl said your penis was small. You ask for my advice so I'm giving you some. And you have the belly to tell me Stop making assumptions seriously you have a big mouth for a small d*** boy. lol small d*** lol I wish you wasn't anonymous.

[valleygirl]

oy yes and besides you being a complete and total LOSER you are also a liar because when I read other comments and your responses you did call her a slut and more than once.

[TimeAndTimeAgain]

You shoulda told her she's the only/biggest slut you've ever been with. Or another appropriate comeback.

[Ryan82]

She felt very hurt when you reacted to the number of guys she has been with. She felt like a slut...she could very well feel as if she IS a slut and have some self esteem issues there. She wanted to make you feel as terrible as she did so that's why she made the comment about your d***, because she knew it would hurt you. If you were together for 7 months and having sex on the regular then she probably was adequately satisfied with the sex to say the least...25 guys by 21 years old? That's kind of alot. Going by that and the comment she made to you it's probably in your best interest (and hers) to break up. Don't stay in contact. Just forget about her.

[sixstring]

Dump the bitch.

[sixstring]

Also tell her she has the fattest ass of anyone you ever dated.

[AltTech]

Get rid of her. She's a bitch on top of being a whore. Bad combo man.

[Randomzzgirl]

You broke up with her because of her sexual past? Damn, she shouldn't have said that, but I do understand her anger :/ I would be angry too if a guy broke up with me because I have had more sexual partners, but yea what she said was wrong. What exactly is your question by the way?

[Asker]

we had been dating for 7 months and she didn't tell me the truth... how am I wrong?

[ROTFLMFAO]

more sexual partners? she had 25! she is a whore... a worthless slut. every self-respecting guy would break up with such a cheap girl.

[Randomzzgirl]

If you really loved her, then you wouldn't care. Plus I'm not saying you where wrong to do that, just that I understand her anger and people often say stupid things when they're angry. Dude don't call her a slut, that's mean.

[Asker]

she has had sex with 25 guys and she's 21 years old... come on... that's a slut if I ever seen one

[Randomzzgirl]

@update, oh don't be so melodramatic, guys have said mean things about my body but I still have sex, because I know they're not worth it and there are plenty of guys who think I'm hot. You need to work on your self confidence.

[Randomzzgirl]

That's no where near what a slut gets through...

[Asker]

25 guys by the age of 21 is a slut all the guys here would agree

[Randomzzgirl]

Why the f*** are you telling me this? If you think she's a slut tell her. Just like she told you what she thought. I know guys, my age (16) that have slept with at least 25 girls, no one calls then man whores. If you loved her you wouldn't care if there where 50 guys before you, so why are you taking it to heart, it was obviously an act of anger, just like how this is for you ya know the whole' I'm gonna tell everyone what meany she was so I can get some comfort ' thing. Talk to her not us.

[ROTFLMFAO]

"I know guys, my age (16) that have slept with at least 25 girls, no one calls then man whores." my god, you are retarded. they obviously lie. guys that age want to impress other guys/girls. don't believe everythin they say. wow... really pathetic.

[Asker]

you're stupid, I don't know ANY 16 year old that's slept with more than 2 girls

[ROTFLMFAO]

by the way, sleeping with 25 girls is not impressive at all. even if they tell the truth, it simply shows those guys aren't picky when it comes to girls. they probaly f*** ugly girls on a daily basis and think they're cool.

[Randomzzgirl]

Yes well done, I'm retarded. They aren't lying I know the girls they've slept with, they're mostly pretty. There is nothing wrong with having a sex drive. Ha ha I'm stupid? I don't go on the internet looking for pity and just because you don't know anyone like that doesn't mean they aren't real, damn.

[Asker]

stupid troll

[ROTFLMFAO]

epic fail girl. hot girls don't sleep with many guys. unlike ugly girls hot girls aren't desperate. they don't feel the need to f*** as many guys as possible. they have a high sex drive? what a retarded excuse. hot girls have hot boyfriends and that's why they prefer to f*** their hot boyfriends.

[Randomzzgirl]

I'm not a troll, I'm just telling you the truth, what do you want? 'oh she's such a bitch, go kill her family because she is such a slut for having a sex drive, the very motion! I feel so sorry for you, you amazing person' happy now? Ya got what you wanted? Some pity? some anger directed towards her? A compliment? A stupid answer so I can get BA? I give real advise, I don't sugar coat and I most definitely do not tell you what you want to hear, I tell the truth.

[Randomzzgirl]

LOL! You're a virgin aren't you? You think hot girls don't sleep around? You need to get tested honey, they sleep around the most.

[chrissyh]

25 by age 21 IS alot... that's pretty much the definition of a slut

[Randomzzgirl]

Hey I didn't say it wasn't a lot, but calling her a slut because of that is stupid. The amount of times someone has had sex does not define them and if you think it does then I really see no point in trying to explain this to you.

[ROTFLMFAO]

haha pathetic girl can't even defend herself. I'm so glad most girls aren't desperate whores. try to debate in a more effective way. your arguments are ridiculous. I realize some girls can't afford to buy a mercedes and that's why they order a taxi every day. cheap girls will always f*** as many guys as possible. that's so unattractive and pathetic.

[Randomzzgirl]

Ahh but you see, your arguments are based on bashing the opponent which is not good in a debate, whilst my replies are full of actual life knowledge. Calling me stupid is not proving a point and neither are your views of life, you can think what you want, but don't pretend my arguments are weak, because I have noticed you only take what you can answer out of my comments whilst I handle every word of yours. Oh now you're bringing money into it? Pfft I'm rich as f*** but I don't think I'm high up.

[ROTFLMFAO]

your arguments are full of life knowledge? HAHAHA, look cutie, you say they aren't lying cause you know the girls they've slept with. that's so naive, sorry, I can't take you seriously. how do they know the guys have slept with 25 guys? if girl x tells you, guy x slept with 25 guys, how does she know? did she watch guy x (while he was f***ing 24 girls). does she really tell the truth? maybe she wants to impress you by telling you she's slept with guy x. stop being so naive. it isn't even funny.

[ROTFLMFAO]

and no, I'm not bringing money into it. I compare a hot guy with a mercedes. a hot girl can afford a hot guy (rich girl can afford a mercedes) whereas cheap girls have sex with ugly guys (poor girls can't afford a mercedes/drive taxi). it isn't that difficult to understand, but you don't even understand such a simple thing. that's sad...

[Randomzzgirl]

Ha ha ha ha ha ha oh look I'm laughing, guess it is funny, yes I'm friends with the girls, they tell me the guys they have slept with duh, I just noticed a lot of names coming up. Yea girls don't generally try to impress other girls with the amount of sex they get. I'm not as pathetic and naive as you may think.

[Randomzzgirl]

More bashing huh? Cool, well that's weird because I sleep with hot guys and have hot boyfriends, but because they're hot I'm not a slut? Ha! Rich, hot guys use us girls for sex all the time.

[ROTFLMFAO]

LOL! of course girls try to impress other girls. of course girls lie on a regular basis just to look 'cool'. my guy friend boasts about f***ing many girls. funny thing is, he only gets to f*** average/ugly girls whereas other guys get to f*** their hot girlfriends. would you rather f*** a hot guy or would you rather f*** many average/ugly guys?

[ROTFLMFAO]

keep deluding yourself. hot guys don't sleep with guys who've slept with many guys before. real hot guys prefer hot girl virgins (they are much more precious). the hottest girl at our school never had a boyfriend. she's simply too picky when it comes to guys. now that's attractive. every guy wants to get in her pants. there are a few whores at out school. guys just use them whenever they're horny. they are not really attracted to cheap girls. they are simply to sad and pathetic.

[Randomzzgirl]

Yes, but not about sex, we get called sluts by other girls if we do. There are plenty of hot guys that just f*** hot girls and leave them.

[Randomzzgirl]

Not true, a hot girl is a hot girl, I'm not cheap, I don't give free random f***s to every guy but I'm not a virgin does that make me a slut? Nope, I have a boyfriend right now and he's pretty much the hottest guy in school, he doesn't mind that I have slept with other guys and he never flirts with the more 'precious' virgin girls, he loves me and it doesn't make a difference to him. forgive the past so you can make the best future. If the girl's worth it, the guy can look past it.

[ROTFLMFAO]

'There are plenty of hot guys that just f*** hot girls and leave them.' you must be really proud to get the chance to f*** those 'hot yet cheap' guys (who only use you as their sex toy).

[Randomzzgirl]

Ha ha I have a boyfriend, I don't cheat on him lol he's the only one I sleep with, but I used to be fooled by the 'nice guy' persona.

[ROTFLMFAO]

i can't believe your boyfriend is OK with the fact you've f***ed many guys before. that's so sad. it doesn't seem like he's a loving/caring boyfriend. he must be very desparate otherwise he would not date you. it's a shame. seriously, real men couldn't deal with it. if I found out my girlfriend (who I really love) had so much sex with different guys, I'd dump her on the spot. just thinking about it makes me want to puke. no offense, I'm just being honest.

[SunSeeker]

Damn I don't have the time nor want to read all this but if you don't think 25 by 21 is slutty (which averages to more than one partner per year since BIRTH btw), then DAMN I don't want to know what you think IS slutty.

[Randomzzgirl]

LOL, it is a lot, but I really don't want to judge her before I know her. Plus that wasn't the question, I just don't like to use that word in general, just how like even if a guy was below average I wouldn't call him small. Well then I guess that's just you, and yes he's actually caring because he accepts who I am, I don't see why it's so hard to understand that someone can love someone else unconditionally.

[SunSeeker]

I believe that only applies when that person is honest.

[Randomzzgirl]

Well she didn't lie to him, she just didn't tell him. It is an awkward conversation and he did break up with her :/

[Asker]

she told me 4 at first

[Randomzzgirl]

That was wrong, she probably didn't want to screw things up with you, but yea I guess you where right to dump her, it would have been nice if you talked to her about it first though.

[SunSeeker]

When you think of the reason why she lied, one can only conclude that even she was ashamed of her past. If she wasn't ashamed, why lie about it? What she did was wrong in every way. If she wanted to sleep with that many men then cool, but own up to it and don't be ashamed and don't lie to innocent guys who actually like you for who they THINK you are. Now if the QA called her a slut then he deserved the baby d*** comment but if he didn't, (although he'd still be allowed to think it), that's diff

[Randomzzgirl]

Well if someone said that they would break up with me because I have had sex, then I would break out something insulting too. Anyway, QA obviously didn't love her, she is what she says she is, the only thing is that she has had sex with more guys, rational adults should be able totalk that through properly.

[SunSeeker]

someone breaking up with you because you're has sex is completely different than someone breaking up with you because you've had sex with 25 different people and lied about it so quite deducing the argument. QA was in love with the person she CLAIMED to be initially, not the person she truly was. Rational adults don't lie and confess later.

[SunSeeker]

You've had*, quit* lol. it's late and I'm drunk my bad. And true adults have no need to confess because they wouldn't have lied to begin with. I'm done. Go on if you insist, but your argument is null.

[Randomzzgirl]

Having more sex doesn't make you a different person, but whatever, think what you want. I'm only saying this because my boyfriend confessed that I wasn't his first, when before he said I wass. I loved him enough to look past it and move on because we, wait for it... Talked.

[SunSeeker]

Yeah, tell me if you'd think the same if he confessed you were his 100th, after he said he was a virgin ;)

[Randomzzgirl]

100th is a bit of an overreaction don't ya think? Ummm I guess I would be a bit thrown off, but it wouldn't make me dump him, I love him way too much to do that.

[DonMichelle]

Because people say things when they're annoyed, upset. Did you insult her, call her a dirtbag etc?

[slipslender]

she was just angry... granted, she really shouldn't have said that...just do your best to forget about her :/

[Asker]

It's like what if I called her fat, that her boobs were too small, he areolas were too big, her face was too ugly..

[SunSeeker]

LOL I love this question because it reminds me of that mathematical formula we developed to gauge sluttiness.

[SunSeeker]

I don't know what to say to make you feel better bout wow, please tell me you dumped her ass for lying about something as important as that.

[Asker]

I did

[jimmy217]

25 guys isn't a lot for one thing...and if she had a problem with your penis size why would she of been with you for so long.

[ROTFLMFAO]

HOLY SHIT! you'd date a girl who's f***ed 25 guys before? wow, that's sad.

[jimmy217]

your putting words in my mouth

[DanHendo]

LOL ^

[TouchTheSky]

It will be like that if you date with bitch to have sex. it's your problem.

[The_Supid_Genius]

Girls will always tell you you have a small d***...even if it's 10 inches long. It's just something they say when either the relationship's over or they haven't any better insults. They know it can p*ss a guy off. Don't let it bug you.

Next time tell the girl she a has a big mitt and it stinks. lol

[Brando]

This

[themastaplan]

HAHAHHAHAHAH LMFAO "next time tell her she has a big mitt and it stinks" LMFAO HAHAHAHHAHAHA

[NerdInDenial]

You can have sugery if you wanted to increase the length, but sex is very important to women whether they want to admit it or not. Depending on how long you've been with her, she could have left you if you weren't satisfying her. Yet, somehow she stayed with you. Remember, the past is the past. So, she's extremely sexually aggressive. As long as she's clean, and she cares for you, why worry about those guys in the past? You're going to have sex again. I remember a comedian saying that there was a correlation between d*** size and amount of sex one will have. "The smaller the guy, the more he will do it because he's got something to prove. If you don't believe me, who's got the biggest population?"

[faidoeos]

there is a correlation between iq and the amount of children people have. this is why the japanese, who have very high intelligence, are experiencing a population decline.

[faidoeos]

she probably felt insulted by the insinuation that she is a slut. I know you probably didn't say that, or anything like that, to her, but it would be hard for her not feel that way after she has slept with that many guys. when she made that admission to sleeping with that many guys, the shame of her past probably drove her to lash out and make that comment.

if I were you I'd set my sights on a woman who is more ladylike and is not so cheap with her body. they may be rarer today than they were in the past but they are still out there.

as for the small penis comment, she was almost certainly trying to think of something hurtful to say, if you had a big penis she would have found another insult to hurl at you.

if it is any consolation, my friend once dated a girl who'd been out with 33 guys by her mid-twenties. and, suprise, suprise, she ended up cheating on him.

[Love2Ball]

However ill tell you what does make you a baby d***. Voting me down for saying it is what it is. Thanks bub.

[Asker]

your answer was useless hence the downvote

[Love2Ball]

It is what it is ...

[wickeddesires]

Your are slightly below avg... But trust me if I had a 4.9" d*** when I was a baby, I would f***ed everybody then too. Don't let this get you down man. There is someone out there that will appreciate your d*** size and you will be her trusty steed.

[Anonymous]

Some people would say you deserved it because I'm sure you called her a slut to her face so she gave back a low blow not to mention OK 25 men is a lot for 21 year old but she is in good health and she hasn't given you any STD'S, and she's not sleeping with anybody but you now so why are you making such a big fuss, you want her to accept your small penis or your short comings but you wouldn't accept hers you are a hypocrite.

[themastaplan]

deserved it? its somehting he can't control...how can he deserve a punch to the gut like that...if he was fat he could be called fat, but his d size is something he can't control unless he gets surgery or whatever other options there may be...its like making fun of someone who is deaf, wtf they can't control that sh*t...you suck anonymous

[Asker]

I didn't call her a slut at all... I'm making a fuss because she lied at first and said she had been with 4 guys

[lv4lv]

Why do you assume such things? Seriously.

[Opinion Owner]

I am attacking or placing ridicule on people who have a small penis because I'm sure it could work much better than a huge one trust me , what I was simply saying is that the asker had to have insulted that young lady for her to use that card, although he said he did not call her a slut something pissed her off or insulted her enough, women don't just say that in a normal quarrel. The bottomline is don't say sh*t to hurt ppls feelings without expecting something back, that's all.

[Asker]

I never said anything to hurt her, stop making assumptions

[Asker]

valleygirl you should go un anonymous

[Opinion Owner]

lol You first Miss lol You see I wasn't makin fun of your issue all the time but since you trying to be disrespectful well too bad for you not to mention you keep replying so you already a b***h. xoxo lol

[Anonymous]

I guess you shouldn't call that SLUT your girlfriend . If this story is true - dump that slut and look for a better girl . She is too bad to respect your body .

[Anonymous]

My ex is 22 and banged 5 guys in 2 months since we broke up.

[Anonymous]

wow, you're too nice. you need to put her in her place. be aggressive and make her cry. don't let her get away with that. don't show her that it hurt you. it will only boost her ego/make her feel better about herself.

[Anonymous]

Donkey punch the b*tch next time you have sex, then dump her.