I believe oral sex is the best thing you can do for your guy. It really shows how much you trust him and he trusts you to make you feel at ease. If certain positions do not feel right for you, then find a better one. If she is worried about hygiene, then take a shower together, which is also a great way to start off with foreplay, then both of you will feel better about your bodies. Making each other feel good is the best gift you can give to each other. I am not saying each time you make love you have to also do oral sex, but mixing it up makes for a great experience. Sometimes there will be quickies and other times there will be sessions where you can experience each others' bodies and those are the times when she should start off kissing you and slowly moving down your body, teasing you with her tongue and then slowly her tongue will move around and she will find herself going down on you naturally. It just happens, without any thought to it. And maybe another night, she will allow you to do the same to her. Pleasing each other is a gift you both want to open.
I suggest you confront her excuse first, using all "I" statements. Say "I have done some research, and it's not unhygienic. I would really like to try this, but I don't want to make you uncomfortable. Can you tell me what you don't like about it?" Don't make her feel like she's been caught in a trap or being attacked. Make her understand that this is something you want to understand so that you two can work it out. I suggest trying to get her to try it out. If you've gone down on her, though, and she likes it but won't return the favor, and nothing seems to be working when you two discuss it.it probably won't happen. Which means that oral sex just won't be a part of your relationship.
I'd love to say that you can have sex without it, good sex. And I DO advocate not doing anything you're uncomfortable with. Unfortunately, though, life is not so cut and dry, and this is basic sexual compatability. So if she won't give in, and it continues to be an issue, you'll have to decide if what you feel for her is big enough to overcome your sexual incompatability.
I am the same way to a point. I'm not someone who likes to recieve oral all that much because I'm insecure with my body and can't enjoy the experiance. I would rather ok get me wet once I'm wet fu*k me already I love to have sex in many different positions I'm just not into oral. I'll give a bj but again its not my fav thing to do it can be uncomfortable, sore jaw, sore neck, and like was said earlier come doesn't taste like fresh baked cookies lol. If the guy doesn't precum a whole lot but does come in a decent amount of time when getting a bj then yea sure I'll do it but I would rather not lay there for 20 30 minutes with my jaw killing me my neck aching and my stomach getting upset from the cum. In her case with the hygene issues get in the shower with her or right after yous both get showers she will know your clean she will know she is clean and it may make her feel a little better. Plus if that's what she's worried about once you go down on her don't kiss her until you clean up.
I think this is the best answer.. I buy ur answer... Thanks a ton..
All I can suggest is to try and find out why she doesn't want to do those things, and if her reasons can't be quelled, then there's probably nothing you can do.
She is a MBBS, so she is telling its not good for health.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!By MBBS do you mean a med and surgery student? If so, then she should know better. As long as you both are STD free, you bathe, and have no infections otherwise, there's nothing wrong with it hygenically. I'm sure tons of medical professionals have oral sex, considering I've two nurses and three doctors in my extended family. So there's something psychological going on there and she's using hygiene as an excuse, most likely because she believes the act itself is dirty and embarassing, which is a common reason for people to object to it.
So, what you suggest me to do?
a lot of times girls are wary of oral sex because A) they are embarrassed about themselves "down there" and don't want to have to worry about what you think of their taste, smell, etc. and B) blow jobs can be uncomfortable, and semen doesn't exactly taste like fresh baked cookies. I would suggest explaining to her that it is something important to you, or at least that you'd like to try it once or twice to see if it is something fun the two of you can do together.
Thanks for ur answer, I have done it two or three times, she enjoyed that too.. but she is telling oral sex is not hyginic.. so she is not interested...
Well why would you question something your girlfriend doesn't want to do? This makes me question how you truly feel about her and what she means to you.
If your boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with you.. you will not ask?
? o.O. Just find out why she won't give you one and why she won't let you give her oral. Either way you'll have to accept it if you truly care about her. That's what I meant when I typed the comment prior.
She is MBBS, so she is telling oral sex is not hyginic... but I love to going down her, I can see her enjoying more than anything..
you probably just suck at it
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