My girlfriend doesn't want to use protection?

We are 3 weeks together and didn't have sex yet but we were talking about it and my girlfriend doesn't want to do it with condom ( she said she just doesn't like this idea) , she also said she won't take pills , it's no way. She said we just won't do it in her fertile days, for example we can do it while her period she said and she won't get pregnant But I'm kinda worried .. what do you think about it?
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  • It's not impossible to get pregnant during your period, and the pull-out and rythm birth control methods are not very reliable. It's incredibly irresponsible of her to refuse to use a legitimate form of birth control. Talk to her about why she doesn't want to use condoms- using them shouldn't impact her experience too much. Maybe she has some concerns or issue with birth control that you can get to the bottom of and hopefully help her work through. But if she continues to refuse to use birth control, don't have sex with her. Insist on using a condom for your protection and hers. If she isn't willing to be responsible about this, you might want to reconsider whether or not she is someone you want to have sex with.

    • "If she isn't willing to be responsible about this, you might want to reconsider whether or not she is someone you want to have sex with." He might want to reconsider whether or not she is someone he wants to have a baby with.

    • That too.

  • If she refuses to use protection, BREAK UP WITH HER.

    Your health and your life are not worth her immaturity and her stupidity. Like I would tell a girl who says her boyfriend won't use protection, at the end of the day it takes 2 people to have sex, 2 people to create a child and 2 people to raise the child.

    You need to do your part(condoms) and she needs to do hers(pill, shot, IUD, spermicide, female condom etc)

    Any time you have sex, you risk pregnancy. Not only is she immature, but she's ignorant

    • I agree.

  • A woman can get pregnant any time she has sex. It doesn't matter if it's a fertile day or not. Sounds to me like she's using sex to get you and then is going to saddle you with a kid to ensure you stick around. I'd run away if I were you.

Most Helpful Guys

  • My new partner whom I've been dating for close to 2 months, we've been having unprotected sex from the word go. She's unable to be on any birth control due to the bad side effects her body experiences. I'm allergic to latex condoms and non latex condoms aren't reliable as they're prone to tearing since they're not very elastic at all!

    Due to this... we both decided to solely rely on the pullout method as our method of birth control as it's worked well for us in the past with previous partners.

    P. S. we were tested before sleeping together and are STI free 😊👌

  • My god, is she stupid ? Condoms are not only for not having babies, but also, and especially to NOT GET STD's like AIDS.

    You do know how you can get aids, right ? And that it still IS deadly, and that even though some medecines exists, they do not cure you, you'll always be HIV positive...

    If she's THAT dumb, then she has already done this with other guys, and there are chances that she's a std dumpster.

    Forget about her, find another girl, or do a HIV test before not using condoms.

    Seesh !

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  • sounds like a trap

  • I can kinda see the no condom thing, but of course she would have to take other precautions. If you don't want condoms and pill there a couple of other methods but most aren't as effective.

    Don't do it without any kind of birth control. For starters she should get tested for STDs (you too ) before you have sex without a condom and then you need to talk to her about it.

  • A girl can still get pregnant on her period, although the chances are lower. And very few women actually know when they're the most fertile. It can be difficult if you aren't regular. I personally don't like the idea... sounds like a trap to me. Sorry, but I'm just being honest.

  • Tell her that without protection there is no sex. I messed up ONCE - and had sex without protection. ONE TIME. And I thought everything was safe, pulled out, everything. And yet she ended up pregnant. Do NOT risk it. There are so many options birthcontrol being one of the best. But condoms are great! And there is easy clean up.

  • The chances of her getting pregnant while on her period are low but still there. Do not do this. She is just trying to trap you with a f***ing kid bro. Say no. How does using protection sound like a bad idea. That's stupid and she is obviously too immature for sex.

  • Bad idea! "Family planning" is one of the crappiest methods of birth control. She needs to have something: pill, patch, IUD, condom (preferably). Spermacides, female condoms and cervical caps have a not-so-great success rate, so don't suggest those.

    If she truly doesn't want babies, she'll need to wrap it, especially if she's not on the pill. Ask her if a few minutes of pleasure is more important than avoiding 9 months of pregnancy and practically a lifetime of taking care of the kid.

  • IT'S A TRAP!

    If she's not willing to use birth control of some other kind, wrap your sh*t up. End of story. Well... unless you actually want a kid of course.

  • run away, please. fast.

  • Get her to use protection or break up.

  • This is a plot to destroy you.

    Don't do it.

  • just don't have sex with her and make your point that way?

  • She wants to have your kid

  • I think you'll be a dad next year.

    • I would never have unprotected sex with her. If she doesn't want condoms, she didn't want to use them with her exes either. What STD's did her exes have? Run away, as fast as you can!

  • Don't do it, it's a trap.

  • She's trying to trap you. Don't trust her. go find someone else who isn't gonna have a baby and ruin your life.

  • That is bad no way! make here take the pill and use condom this is a no no no, unless you want a baby (sounds like she wants a baby to me). IF she agrees to use condoms, take the condom with you after just to be certain don't leave any sperms behind.

  • I have partners pretty close to my age, and it's okay to take chances with them. But at 18ish, a woman's fertility is at her peak. She could get pregnant even if you kissed her :-)

  • You'd be a fool to fall for that. You can still get her pregnant. Anyone who had to tale health class in high school knows that. Tell her there will be no sex unless protection is used. Unless you're ready to become a dad.