My girlfriend has a hairy butt and because of that we cannot have anal, advice?

so as the title says, yesterday was the first time we getting naked and we were set for a sweet anal night, we lighted up the candles and all that sht (for a romantic atmosphere), we jumped on the bed, and she bends over, then I suddenly noticed thick hair near in her anus, which grossed me out a bit, I was hesitating to stick my thing there, she asked if I'm alright and I was sweating like f***, so I maned up and sticked it in, I didn't feel like enjoying myself, so I started going in and out and she said she barely feels my penis, I couldn't go any deep because (I know this might sound weird) but it felt like I'm grabbing some dude's butt with all that hair, I told her I wasn't in the mood and she got freaked out because she kinda figured out what it was all about, so I told her it was nothing and that we'll try again today, and now I'm asking for your advice guys, what am I supposed to do? should I tell her to shave or what? I need help please
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  • I had one Girlfriend like that and we used the hair removal cream on her cheeks together and it worked great. We took out time with it. As far as the crack, use warm baby oil (u can put the bottle of oil in a bowl of warm water for awhile) so it is soothing and WAY overly coat the crack. Having a guy help you and keeping an old towel under You helps. When the warm oil has softened every thing, use a really good shave cream, a jell or even an Aramis or other fancy cream. You can put a mirror on the floor of the bathroom, and hang onto the sink, and squat like peeing out side. You can easily reach every inch of your crack with a good razor. Also, buy a great razor, like one with a rotating head and a lube strip. Works awesome. When it is all smooth, take a shower. But when you dress, put a little baby powder (she did this in the shower area with the water off so the powder did not get everywhere). This will stop you from getting sweaty in between cheeks and help the cheeks slide, which is actually one function of the hair. Believe it or not, some times she would NOT use powder, and let the area get moist naturally for awhile. I would be able to enter her anally just using this "lube" -- but we were really good at anal before we ever tried this. I would also help her with enemas to stay clean and pink. It's all up to you. You can do as much or as little as you want. But let me tell you, when she spread that perfectly smooth butt and pink hairless hole for me? Wow. What a turn on...

  • Not all girls look like p*rnstars, they don't spend hours making sure they're a**hole looks pretty for you. Everyone gets pubic hair there, if you can't ignore it don't do anal or if you think she'll understand ask her to shave that area more thoroughly. Best advice though...ignore it.

    • Nah, guess I'll have to spend some time with her in the bathroom LOL

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  • It's really common, a lot of girls have hair there, and honestly - it's a lot harder to get to and sort out than normal pubic hair. And she's not going to go to the salon to get it waxed all the time.

    There's pretty much two options, man up and deal with the fact that there's some hair there, or man up, be honest with her, and help her remove it.

    I mean, some couples even find shaving their partner as quite a sensual experience, and it's a great means to an end.

    • Yeah.. dude... today when your both alone.. and when she bends over so you can do your job.. just take out a razor and start cutting that sh*t!..

    • LMFAO SYSTEM YOU MADE ME LOL, and heatherlu, thanks, guess I'll have to man up either ways xD

  • every girl has a hairy ass a bit or a lot. I use Nair and I shave mine because I love anal. I don't know ask her too do something..

  • Get her a gift certificate for a full Brazillian and plan to keep paying for them.

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  • You should not "tell" her anything. Man up, and help her out. Get some nair for the cheeks. I did it -- gladly -- for a girl.

    Help her shave her hole too. Or spring for laser. Tell her the only and best way to eat ass is with tongue on anus. The hair blocks her pleasure and yours.

    There are no "her" and "his" problems any more -- just "you" challenges (as in the plural).

  • Do a demo for her. Wax yourself first, so she knows what to do. If it doesn't hurt you, I'm sure she will let you wax her fanny next.

    • Why would I wax myself?

    • If you want her to go through the pain of it all, you should be willing to do it too. Just a thought.

    • What, shaving is painful now?

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  • So what you do is set aside some ass pampering time, get her in the bathroom, shave her poopy hole for her wash it out, maybe even give her an enema... get it all nice and shiny... then stick your tongue up there as far as it will go.

    What's the problem?

    • Lmao.

    • OMG hahahahahahaha

    • THIS. Lmao, nice one Shaun.

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  • Tell her to wax that sh*t man. Then split her like an old piece of firewood. I've had this problem before too ha.

    • lmao

  • Just an imput, it is really hard to shave that area without getting cut or missing parts of it.

    • lmao "missing parts"

    • Put a mirror on the floor, in front of the bathroom sink. Squat over it, like peeing outside? You can easily reach all the areas you need to. Use baby oil first, then a REALLY good gel shave cream. Any girl can keep her butt hole perfect if she wants to.

  • Just do it missionary style or something bro