My girlfriend is loose, how do I tighten things up?

[spartan123]

Having sex with my girl is awesome, however we've had sex so much since we started going out for the past 5 months. I think her vagina has come a bit loose so to speak and not as tight as it used to be. I haven't told her this because she's the sensitive type and a bit insecure at the moment. How can I tackle this problem without upsetting her? Any sex positions that can help? Or how can I tell her or recommend solutions to her without coming across like a d**khead.

[timetowaste]

Ehhh... if you mention kegels she's going to come at you with "Why?! Do you think I'm loose?!" So. Since you said she's the sensitive type.

There are things called Ben Wa Balls. Google it. Anyway, they usually have a weight inside of them, that when you walk or move, shift around and can feel really good inside. But they also make the muscles of the vagina contract to hold them in, thus tightening the muscles.

Or you guys could just abstain for a little while.

[Anonymous]

Restrain yourself from sex to give her muscles some time to bounce back and repair. Kegels will be great for her to do - and if you don't want to risk offending her, why not suggest BOTH of you doing them? (Yes, there are some for men.)

[Tracbam]

Am glad you admitted not as tight as you noticed before meaning when you started having sex with her, she was tight. Well get her vagina tightner cream or soaps, it kinda helps and increases firmness in the V...

[Anonymous]

I think it's pretty obvious "how" to tighten it up. Anyone can figure that one out pretty easy.. His question is, how to CONVINCE her to do it without getting kicked in the nuts... This is a question for the ladies. How would you want your man to go about bringing this up to you? Hypothetically speaking of course... ;)

[cavmanier]

Definitely kegals. Her vagina won't get looser or bigger from your penis though. That's a big urban legend. link

[Stacyzee]

Actually from a girl's perspective the vagina does. If a woman is having sex repeatedly throughout the week her vagina will get looser, because its not given the chance to shrink back down to size.

[dudeman]

Vaginas don't get bigger but they loosen up.faster and that's just as bad

[cavmanier]

It's just not true Stacyzee. There are many credible sources out there that suggest otherwise link . I've heard this from several MDs and have never heard it gets "loose" from sex from someone credible, only by word of mouth. Yes it will get looser during sex but after sex it goes back to normal pretty fast. Also have had sex with the same girl for 7 years and have never noticed a change.

[Stacyzee]

Why not try substaining from sex for a little while, to give her to chance to tighten back up?

[TimB -1-2-3]

Propose that she exercise the PC muscles.. She'll have better orgasms as well, so it's a win/win :)

[carinabina820]

Practice kegels while ure fingering...better than during sex because it requires more strength. Also if you don't hit it every single day it'll naturally tighten up, go on vacation or something with your family.

[Anonymous]

Get her to practice her kegel exercises.