She probably doesn't feel an emotional connection. Try being really sweet to her and do romantic things. She'll feel loved and good about herself, and that'll make her want to sleep with you. Some girls usually have sex because they want to fulfill an emotional need (also physical, but not as much as men), and if they don't have a romantic bond or share strong feelings with the man, they'll feel empty.
Try kissing her neck and telling her sweet things before sex.
If she doesn't feel anything physically I would suggest more foreplay and clitoral stimulation. Ask her if when you were separated if she was OK with other men. Maybe it's something in the relationship she's worried about.
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Did she just start birth control? That can kill sexual desire for a while.
it upsets her that she can't orgasm anymore so I don't think its me and she's not on the pill anymore so that can't be it. any tips to turn her on again?
Stress can do that. Make her feel comforted and comfortable again.
it's probably stress or an emotional hang up, she needs to relax and focus only on you and her not what she has to do afterwards,
Is she taking any types of medications?
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