My girlfriend never lets me finish anymore, why?

Let me preface my question by telling you that I slept over my girlfriend's house for the past 5 days. She lives with her parents still. Her Dad asked me to stay the first 4 days. Like he asked if I wanted to spend the night. Anyway, in these four days we have had sex once, last night. Another night before I tried to but she "kept hearing footsteps" but those footsteps didn't stop her from asking me to finger her. Then last night we were having sex, and she came, then she told me her foot hurt so I backed away so she could see about her foot. And then got dressed. The night before that we went over to my apt to get some clothes for me to sleep in, on the way back she started giving me head, but then stopped. This morning she got me hard, and then left me alone. My question is why does she keep giving me blue balls? She has been doing that a lot lately. I have always lasted a lot longer than her. She has told me before that I make her sore. I mean damn, I get her off, but she can't do the same for me? What kind of messed up crap is that?
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Also, while I'm ranting lol...Last night when we are trying to sleep, she kept putting her arm on my head, well I kept waking up and every time I did she would move her arm, so one time I didn't fall right back asleep, and she put her arm on my head and didn't move it until I moved my head. I know people move in there sleep so I don't know that she was doing it on purpose, but it felt like she was trying to push me onto the floor. I say this because she was all up under my back...
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So I finally did just go to the floor and right when I did she leaned over the bed and said "I know you aren't sleeping on the floor silly" and smiled...then she layed back down and spread her legs taking up most of the bed, which is why I thought she was doing it on purpose. So I thought about it and just went to the other side of her bed. She fell asleep on the right side and ended up all the way on the left side where I was at first. I think I am just over thinking things.
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  • If I was sleeping in someone's bed and they kept doing this I'd punch then in the head! lol jk but I move around in my sleep but if someone else were in the bed I don't move around cause I know they are there... I can't really snuggle when I sleep though. More like if I fall asleep not touching someone and they try and touch me while I'm sleeping I'll move away. If I fall asleep let say with my head on his chest yeah I'll stay there all night lol

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  • speak to her about it, instead of spending your time being sexually frustrated. she probably doesn't realize how frustrating it is to be teased like that.

    I wouldn't delve into it too much, I doubt she's doing it on purpose. perhaps it's just inexperience?

    anyway, the best way to improve your sex life is to communicate so I suggest you do that.

    • ^ this

    • This morning she kept asking me what was wrong because she thought that I was mad at her. I just texted her told her I wasn't mad just sexually frustrated. She asked, "How baby?" I told her because I didn't come she said "When, last night?" I said yes, and she replied "You don't have to come every time" Wtf, I don't get to come every time but she damn sure does? WTF

    • she doesn't understand men very well. sure sometimes it's OK not to come but if it's like it is in your situation, I would feel the same. most guys would. she just doesn't get it.

  • Dump her. Just dump her if she's willing to do that crap to you.

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  • im sorry but she sounds like a selfish b*tch

  • Wow she's selfish

    • Do you think so?

    • Hell yeah it's all about her. She finishes you don't. If you keep going She gets sore. She teases you and then stops. If I was dating a guy and he did that sh*t I'd be out the door.