My girlfriend's boobs aren't perky?

I don't want to sound like an asshole but my girlfriend doesn't have perky boobs which bothers me.She's a DD I think but they kind of sag.My ex had DD and they didn't sag or none of that.They aren't what I expected and it bothers me.should I dump her?or tell her how I feel?And to top it off she has big areolas and big nipples(kind of long).help?
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we've been going for for about 10 months if that matters
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So,I broke up with her today in person But I probably won't be the only guy to complain lol
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  • If you're not attracted to her, break up with her. I don't think there's any way to have a healthy relationship with someone if you're keeping something like that bottled inside. I think you're being very superficial, but sometimes people can't help being that way, so the best thing you can do is try not to hurt others with it.

    If you tell her how you feel, you run the risk of hurting her quite badly. And telling her will probably not do you any good. Plastic surgery is becoming more common, but that doesn't mean any girl will do it on a whim, and personally I don't think it's right to do that just to please another person.

    You have to decide for yourself whether you can get over this and like her the way she is, or if you need to break up with her and give both of you the chance to find someone better suited. If you're hoping that she'll get surgery and you think she's the type to be able to handle such criticism, you could try explaining your feelings to her. But I don't recommend that. Women are often very insecure about their breasts (in part because of men like you I might add) so tread carefully and think about how you would feel if she had such a criticism about you.

    • Nobody is perfect... remember that. You're not perfect either. And larger breasts tend to be less perky. It's natural. You can't expect the girls you meet in real life to look like the airbrushed, edited, surgery-created images of unnatural perfection that you see on movie screens.

  • Okay, I'm going to take a different approach. You started you're statement by saying you felt bad for your opinion of your girlfriends breast. Do you like her alot? Is this the one thing that bothers you? Have you thought about buying her a half bra? Those are the kind that holds the breast up and covers the bottom part of the aerolas? It might make you more comfortable for you both. Those bras can be very sexy. You can also buy sexy pasties. You can get them in hearts and stuff and that covers that nipple area and feels nice. You also stated that it wasn't what you expected so maybe you need to get slowly used to it. I have to tell you that it is normal for breasts to sag and as women get older the bigger the breast the more it sags. Hey, I'm not going to be rough on you, I went from a B to C and I noticed my breasts are a little lower and it bothered me. If you just really are turned off by that and can't deal I guess you would have no other choice but to do the right thing and let her go. It might be a decision you'd later regret though.

  • well this is just how life works. physical attraction is a big plus in any relationship. If you don't feel right about it and it turns you off then maybe you should look elsewhere. just think, maybe there is something about you she doesn't like such as... deformed looking d***? small d***? big d*** monster? ha ha or maybe a certain way or things you do yet she still makes sacrifices.. because girls are insecure about thier boobies and bodies so they are willing to except you the way you are.. just go with your instinct :)

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  • The double standards being posted onto here is over the top. I do think we all have our own opinions and preferencies regarding what we find attractive, but for you to tell someone that theyre an asshole for talking about their own standards and opinions, makes you the real asshole. The guy may not like the shape or perkiness of his girlfriends breast, but if he truly likes her he will stay with her. He does not need the help of a few jackasses on the internet to tell him what he should do if he doesn't like one small thing about his girlfriend. Im sure if a girl was complaining about her boyfriends penis size or how he does one thing, all of you would tell that girl to find another man, that "appreciates her" when I'm sure that this guy did not start dating his girlfriend for her breast.

    although there is no true natural fix for "perfect breast", if he truly enjoys the presence of his girlfriend, he will stay with her, no matter how perky her breast are.

  • Are her boobs the only thing you're after? If so, then yes dump the poor girl. You'd be doing her a very big favor.

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  • if you would dump her over her boobies then you don't care about her anyway . NO DONT TELL HER YOU DONT LIKE HER BOOBIES that is mean and upsetting . yes you should brake up with her becuase she should be with someone who likes ALL of her . just tell her its not working out with yall or something don't tell he its cuase of her chest jeezzz

    the only saggy boob is you . maybe she thinks your balls are to saggy to but she never said nothing .. would you want her to dump you over it ?

  • It's sad that you've been with a girl for 10 months and the fact that her boobs don't look like the girls in p*rn makes you want to end it. I'm sure your d*** isn't exactly huge and perfect like the guys in p*rn either. Anyway, dump her if you really can't get over it, but don't tell her that her boobs are the reason. You'll only make her self conscious when she can find a guy who's more mature later that won't even care.

    • Great advice, don't tell her that you are breaking up because of boobs.

    • @sobored Don't tell her because it's a really stupid thing to do.

  • Then break up with her.

    There would be no point in telling her unless you are expecting her to get surgery for you,then it just depends on how she feels about them herself and whether she's OK with going through all of that to please you.

    And people say guys aren't picky...*tsk tsk*

    • Stay away from my girlfriend you bi sicko.

    • You're a f***ing moron.Thanks for thumbing me down.You need mental help.Perhaps you should go seek mental help?

    • Well you know,that gives me more reason to never want to show my boobs to a guy haha.Guys are picky and having big areolas sucks

  • All boobs are different. She's a DD so of course there not going to be up to her chin perky, gravity comes into play for these things and there quite big things so ya know. And if you like this girl then her breasts and nipples it shouldn't matter. But evidnetly you don't like her that much if your thinking about breaking up with her just because of that.

    I think you need to grow up on things like this.

  • don't know what to tell ya, because obviously attraction is a big part of a relationship, at least for awhile. just think that she probably knows it too and is probably insecure about it and can't do anything about it unless she wants to spend a lot of money.

  • Her boobs aren't going to magically perk up. If it's a dealbreaker, go. Let her find someone who can deal.

  • ass hole

  • bigger breasts usually sag, that is to be expected. if a girl is working with a DD you have to understand that gravity is going to pull them down. not everyone can be like your ex girlfriend. don't tell her how you feel, do you know how hurtful that would be to her? girls are very sensitive about her bodies and there really would be nothing she could do about it anyway. girls can't control the size of their breasts nor can they change the perkiness level. if it bothers you that badly then maybe you don't like her as much as you should so end it with her. I'm sure there are things about you that your girlfriend doesn't find so perfect either so maybe you should think about that. but if it something that you seriously can't get over just break up with her w/o telling her it was her breasts

  • If it really bothers you that much, go find someone else. I don't really see what the problem is though. Just don't tell her the reason. It will make her self-conscious if you do.