My girlfriend wakes me up quite often during my sleep by doing something sexual?

[Anonymous]

I and girlfriend were in a long distance relationship but now she is with me for few months. I am bit tired of one thing that she wakes me up quite often during my sleep by doing something sexual like sucking d*** or playing with it so I am not getting proper sleep these days and I need to work as well. How can I tell stop doing without hurting her? I am afraid that her sex drive is many times stronger than me. Girls, do you have sex drive like this. Did anyone pass through such a stage?

[viva_glow]

Three possibilities:

She's a nympho.

She's temporarily kinda a nympho because she finally gets to spend a decent amount of time with you after not seeing you as much and is acting out all her horny pent-up energy.

And this is the most likely: She thinks you're enjoying this because sometimes women have the perception that pleasing a man sexually ALL the time (even inappropriate times - sometimes perceived as the best of times because it's unexpected) is something they will want.

I suggest you approach the issue by explaining how much you appreciate her willingness to please you but that it's messing with your sleep cycle. So if she's so inclined to please you, maybe to wait until your alarm gets you up or is about to (not too much earlier before because you'll probably want the sleep). As long as you're nice about it I'm sure she won't be upset; after all, it's just a misunderstanding.

[saphirasilverwings]

You just need to explain to her that you want to do those things, but you need to get proper sleep so you can be healthy and well rested during the day. Cooperate with her to find times for sex that will work for both of you. And maybe on weekends or other certain times you can indulge her habit. If you work together, you should be able to come up with a balance.

[litlaprincess]

I actually did that to my hubby but he just said "babe, can you do this when I have my days off, I need some sleep. I love it when you wake me up like this and I would love to continue but I just can't right now" and that's what I do, we have sex earlier and I wake him up when he has his days off.

[northwestree]

I love your problem. Mine is the other way around. I have asked my girlfriend several times to wake me up by sucking my d***, but to do it when I am sleeping lightly, like if she wakes up before me in the morning. It would be a heavenly way to start the day. So far she has not been willing to do it. She hates to be woken up ever, and has a hard time convincing herself I would really like this.

Just talk to your girlfriend about when and how often.

[Asplode]

First of all, she's a keeper :)

Second, just explain to her that you absolutely love when she does it but you're only human and with work and all you need to sleep. Ask if she can do it on your days off and explain that it has nothing to do with her.

[tohzoku]

Just ask her to not do it so often so that you can get proper sleep. If your relationship is otherwise healthy, than this shouldn't be a problem. If she can't respect your request, high drive or not, then she's a bitch.

[selfishstars]

Just talk to her about it. Say something like, "I really love having sex with you, and I think it's sexy when you wake me up with a blowjob, but I haven't been getting enough sleep lately, so could we wait until after I wake up to have sex?"

[goflipaburger]

this!

[simplythebest]

yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay!

[imonfire]

yeah, I would probably just settle with a little bit of tiredness at work. But, that's just me.

[LuvJamesDeen]

When she wakes you up, just tell her you are too tired.

[Betwyn]

Ask her to only do it 15 min before the alarm is set?

Or maybe goto bed sooner, so you don't lose as much sleep?

[vocalheiress]

tell her to relax, as much as you love her & sex, you need proper sleep. say it respectfully and kindly. seriously though, interrupted sleep sucks big time.

[bunnii]

That's fun but mayb she shud do that a night wen you hav off the nxt day. Just talk to her about it. If she respects uu she'll stop... Comunication is the key to any relationship

[Anonymous]

Just tell her the truth. It's not like you hate it or anything it's that you need your sleep. She should understand.

[Anonymous]

You should break up, as she's wasted on you.

[Betwyn]

lmao