My girlfriend wants me to pretend to rape her in front of my friends!

Is she out of her mind ? Does anyone else here had any such fantasy ever ?
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yeah..even I was thinking the same - Why would she want my friends to see. Its not that I dnt trust her because I knew her well for years. I just found it bit weird coming from her. Anyways I had a talk with her and told her I'm not into it and would like to keep such things personal. She is fine with that and said its just that the thought turns her on? okay..watever..! Thanks for the responses guys!
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  • Earliest responders were saying basically it sounded good, but the later responders hit the important ideas. If you do this in front of your friends, they will believe you raped her. Then she could report it as rape and they would back her up. And even if she does not report it, they could tell others about it and people would feel she was covering for you if she tried to explain it.

    Not having people there but recording it is bad for a lot of the same reasons. And the idea of making sure none of your friends recorded it is stupid - how could you ensure that nobody did?

    If this were to actually go on, you better have everyone in on what is going on. Sure, it will be acting without anyone thinking it is real, but that is the safe way. And have them sign a statement about it first. Sounds too complicated? It is. Best to not do this in front of any witnesses (or cameras).

    One big question is why does she want to expose her body to your friends and have them watch you phuck her?

  • Do not do this - she could easily claim that you raped her, and she would have eye witnesses.

    • agree!

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  • I don't think she is out of her mind for wanting that .. its sounds fun I am a 28 year old female and I have to say I would do something like that .. that is if I could get my man to do it LOL .. some people just like stuff like that .. being watched and stuff ... my advice to you is if your OK with doing it then do it . but don't do it just cause she wants you to .. make sure yall talk before and see what is OK and what's not .. also make sure your cool with what ever friends watch .. once you do it you can't go back and undo it LOL ... DONT LET NO ONE RECORD IT no matter what ... not with a cell phone or nothing ... make sure its not a set up either like she is going to pretend she don't want it and record you rapeing her then use it against you ... make sure you know this girl well and can trust her ... I know that sounds crazy but hey I could happen .. just be careful that's all

    • You're out of your mind too.

  • A lot of women have the rape victim fantasy. I personally wouldn't want others to watch but I think if your open to the idea then I say go for it. Just make sure the two of you talk about it before hand and to use a safe word, something she can say if she feels it is going to far and you can stop. Maybe try it without others around and see how it goes. If your not into letting others watch at all maybe you can set it up so that you can have a camcorder to record it.

  • if it was between you two-it would be normal,but it sounds like she's trying to make it out like you're a rapist-i wouldn't do it-getting labeled as a rapist doesn't go away

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  • This could be a horrible set up where she has the ammo to go to the police and say you raped her.no one would know it was a pre planned fantasy.

    • good point

    • Good point. I hope she's not mad at you or trying to get you trouble. Hopefully she's not, but this sounds like a chance for trouble. If she wants a rape fantasy, give it to her, but only in private.

    • as others point out, this is a pretty common fantasy...the 'set up' scenario sounds like the least likely possibility, though there's no question you'd want to be awfully careful

  • not unusually...rape fantasy is intimate. I will not include his friends

  • I really like the rape fantasy but I don't know if I'd ever want my friends to watch. I think making sure no one records it is a really good idea though.

    • LOL very good point. If a girl wants to do sexual things in front of others, I'm cool with it, but, I wouldn't give the pretense that I was forcing her to.

    • I guess I wouldn't mind doing things in front of people, but I think in front of friends would be really awkward.. especially a fantasy, which is kind of private.

    • fair point. some people handle this sort of thing better than others, and if there is going to be weirdness, best kept with strangers.

  • rape fantasy is pretty common too, gangbang too... but I wouldn't want his friends to actually be there... that would be going too far I think.