It kinda sounds like she's teasing u. Best way to go about it is to ask her. The next time she says "I like it when my t*ts are fondled", tease her back and say "if your lucky enough I might do it, IF UR LUCKY!" With her sex comments do the same thing "meh, you can't handle this, so stop talking about it". Gauge her reaction, if she's tripped out DO NOT ATTEMPT. The next time you have a make out session, cut it off early.. Get up fix your self & say "lets go, we're going out", put on the TV or play xbox. She'll b speechless & if she wants to move on with it, she'll be pulling you back.
If she's trying to get you to be more assertive by hinting, reverse psychology will push her to make the first move! If you keep cutting your sessions short & throwing in the above & other quick witted comments...aaaand if she really wants sex or even second base, she'll be begging for it soon enough! It worked for my hubby when we first got together! It's playing the game & knowing when you can use being a self centered jerk. It's ALMOST as if she's not good enough to have what you got.
This can only be used if she's just teasing. If she's really trying to preserve her virginity, that's a while other tactic & she's just being prude circle jerk.0 0 0 0maybe she does want to but she's trying to get used to it. id just keep trying till she's ready. thinking of sex and doing it are very different. ANYWAYS you shouldn't expect to just jump into it. take time if uve never had sex., why should be making out frever anyways till she's ready. so what's the problem? you're waiting whether you touch her breasts today or next week/. relax and keep experimenting.
TALKING TO HER is a very good idea.
takjing to us is manipulative. you are both going yo end up having private thoughts vs public communication.
jjust talk to her and if she's a virgin expect many weeks of not doing too much more than you're doing now
DONT be forceful. that's retarded, also can be considered assault. so watch it. someone moves your hand, for a reason.
WAIT a year? OK, just forget everything I said. TALK to her. have a real honest clear discussion. don't let her not communicate. she owes you some concrete communication.0 0 0 0Having an open road of communication is the only way you two will ever be on the same page with this.
Noticing these things, and dusting them under the rug will only allow them to continue.
All I can advise you is to bring awareness to her that she is providing mixed signals, and you two can go from there.1 1 0 0
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She wants you to be more forceful. Don't be so tentative. Don't let her remove your hands silently. Be more forceful. If she verbally tells you no, then you'll know she's just f***ing with you, so stop making out with her, and leave her high and dry.
She might at least respect you if you don't take her sh*t.0 0 1 0Sex is one of the pillars that will hold a relationship together. You need to communicate that to her, or else your relationship will crumble apart.
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5 1how old are you two?
I'm assuming she's a virgin?0 0 0 0your ages? is she a virgin? is she a religious virgin?
0 0 0 0Talk to her ; ask her questions but don't pressure her into answering and opening up to you. If she feels like she can trust you, it'd be easier to talk then have sex.
My opinion is whether she's a virgin, whether she got raped : maybe she was a virgin when she got raped..0 0 0 0This was me! I wanted it but it made me feel scared. My ex kept trying to touch me until it left me with trauma. Don't take a risk and assault your girlfriend!
0 0 0 0She says she WANTS you to do it but then moves your hands away when you do? She's teasing you and isn't serious about having sex. She's possibly saving herself but wants to tantalize you so you'll stay with her.
2 1 0 0Why would she do that though? She is only frustrating me
If she's a virgin, she's read some pamphlet on how to keep her guy's interest. You have to give her an honest bottom line about your expectations or she just won't understand how badly you want sex after she's teased you to "blue balls" stage.
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