My girlfriend won't squirt any more

My girlfriend used to squirt all the time, whether through sex or using my fingers/vibrator, it was amazing and she knew I loved it. Then one night she squirted like I had never seen, like 12inches of 'stream', it was incredible. But now she won't 'let herself go' at all, she hasn't squirted in months... What can I do to get these back? Is she embarrassed? She won't talk to me about it! Help girls, please!
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  • She might be stressed or have a lot on her mind right now. She may be embarrassed that she squirted so far. We all have different views on things. She may even be just not in the mood or depressed for some reason.

    • I'd hate to think she's stressed but maybe your right. She's not a great communicator which makes this all quite hard to understand.

    • I would try to talk to her about it and if she still doesn't give you an answer I would watch how she acts and that should give you some kind of clue if she's okay.

  • how often are you still having sex? maybe she's feeling pressure to 'squirt' which is involuntary by the way by you and you're disappointment about her lack of, in your opinion, enthusiasm is stressing her out?

    • 2-3 times a wee and its still really good, just missing that ending I love. I just can't figure put what changed after that time, but maybe it is because I said I wanted it again like that, its just pressure :-/ Thanks for your genuine help btw

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    • she probably just has a case of performance anxiety. Stop working to get her to squirt and just be in the moment. it's great that you love it but if she knows that's what you're waiting for it's a lot to ask when it's something she has no control over. just relax and stop waiting for it...a watched pot never boils ;P

  • I may have just thrown up in my mouth.. Sorry I'm to strait for this lol..

    • LOL, sorry if I put you off your food!

Most Helpful Guy

  • I don't know if your relationship includes kink but if she's okay with it, tie her up and just go until she's so fired up she has to let go to retain her sanity. Only do this with her informed consent.

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  • She ran out of cum and pee. Tell her to drink more.

  • I'm having the same problem, Iv always been a squirter but lately nothing, it doesn't feel as good gor me and I know my hubby is disappointed. If you figure it out let me know, 😭😪

  • I've recently lost the ability to... it's pretty bizarre. Maybe she has, too? Sometimes it's totally embarrassing, especially if she had that kind of orgasm, but it usually is pretty incredible. If she finds a way to do it again, I'd love to know!

  • Give her a squirt gun to hold while you guys are screwing and then she can just use that.

    • Lol...i'd pull the trigger too early!

  • The reservoir has run dry. Give her some time to build it back up again.

    • But 3 months? :-(

    • Men are so annoying. Why can't you just give her a good orgasm and be happy with that?

    • fingering girl basically means her guy wants to make her have a good orgasm. if she feels that, then he wins because the goal is just her orgasm. squirts or not, its still orgasm.