My guy wants me to humiliate him in bed. Any ideas?

So it's a fantasy of his he wants to try. I said OK, let's try it. I love him, and I'm open-minded. As I think of it, I can't help feeling uncomfortable about it though. I'm already dominant in bed sometimes, but this is many steps further. I don't know if I can bring myself to say and do some or the things he wants, but I'm trying to see it as: this is something he enjoys, it's just an act, and I like when he's turned on so I should give it a chance. I'm going to talk to him about how I feel, and I think we should take it slow and work up to some things... Is there a way to make this easier for me to do though? Mentally and emotionally? Also, any creative ideas on what's 'humiliating'?
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  • talk dirty, sit on his face make him eat you out like crazy and ask him to tell you how good you taste and how he wants you to sit on his face all day

    slap him a little while you're riding him hard, grab his neck, call him names, etc.

    also I don't know if this is too far for you, but peeing is a huge fetish and it's a very "dominant" thing esp in the dominatrix type of situation, so you can do that, also whipping.

    • ^^ good advice

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  • Kick his balls!

  • talk dirty with him and observe his genitalia with passion. Press his balls wildly and say why you have smaller balls :P lolz etc etc