My Husband Wants Me To Sleep With Another Man Again?

It has been a fantasy of his forever, we've done it twice already. I have told him it makes me feel dirty, like a whore, yet he won't drop the subject. We have been together 5 yrs, with a kid. I don't know what to do anymore . . . because of the constant pressure to just keep this fantasy alive, I have no sex drive. Please help I'm at the end of my rope.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Not sure what to say here, but I've been ask that by my husband too. It first started about 2 years ago and yes it made me feel like dog off the streets. I finally ask him why he kept asking this of me. He explained that he thougth that was what I liked since I had left him and he thought I had been sleeping around. I told him he was totally wrong and if that was the case, I would not have come back. Since then he stopped asking and our marriage got better. Until last week, he ask again. he did so during love making, I could not believe he had asked again. I went again and said OK, he asked if I would like that? I said yes. I answered thinking that is what he wanted to hear, but now I'm thinking why did he even ask that again period. I won't do it, but it's making me wonder if he's serious about it and why?

  • How is the sex life between you and your husband {when there isn't a third party involved}?

    Does your husband have a small penis?

    Are these random men, or friends and acquaintances of his?

    Have you considered that your husband get therapy?

    Answers to these questions would provide me with more information to answering your question. I need to see the entire picture. Your question/statement seems a little vague.

    • Our sex life has been a roller coaster, due to surgery & the removal of one of my ovaries I don't have the sex drive I used to. There is also a 16 year age difference, him being older. He has an average penis size. One was a random guy the other a former acquaintance. And every time I bring up therapy it gets pushed a side.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm in a relationship where my girl sleeps with other guys but I remain faithfull. We both love it. There were a lot of hurdles to get over. It took her a while to come to grips with the fact that I love it and that I have no interest in other women. Some guys are just wired like that. We've been together eight years and let me say the sex is just as good and hot as day one. How many people can say that?

    That said if your not comfortable with it, and your clearly not, tell him to shut the f*** up about it already. This kind of relationship isn't for everyone.

  • One way or another threesomes and random sexcapades like these ruin relationships. STOP it NOW, tell him to f*** off about it, and if he actually cared for you, he'd listen to you and REEEEEEEEEESSSSSSSPEEEEECCCCCCCCTTTTTTTTTT your voice on the matter.

    THE END.

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  • You shouldn't do anything like that if you don't want to. If you don't want to do it, he has no say in the matter.

  • Tell him you have a fantasy that involves watching him and another man go at it and that until you see that happen you're done doing his fantasy.

  • Take him to see a professional counselor. You shouldn't do what you're not comfortable with.