My husband wants to make a sex tape, but I feel kinda weird about it?

I know he's not just some guy but my husband and I trust him but I'm still uncomfortable with this. What if we break up someday and he shows that video around. no one else but has ever seen me naked and I'm not keen on that happening He asked so often and I feel bad rejecting him all the time. I would generally be open to this if I only knew no one else would see it. Is igt worth taking the risk?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well, if you really don't feel comfortable being recorded on video, then you should tell him in a calm, nice way that you are dot comfortable with being watched (even by a camera), and that there are risks of that tape ending up in the wrong hands. Tell him that it's not that you don't trust him, you are just not comfortable with being filmed. You love him, but not comfortable with being filmed. If he loves you, and cares about your feelings, then he should understand, and let it go. If he just gets mad, and starts saying things like "I can't believe you won't do this for me, you don't love me, etc, etc, etc", then he does not care about your feelings, and is not a good husband.

  • Just give him this.

    link

    There, he's got his sextape.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You have very good reasons for not wanting to make a sex tape and he should respect that. to me, it isn't worth it. as a woman, you have more to lose than he does if it ever were to get out. even if he didn't show it to ppl, what if someone broke into your house? or someone stole it? you just never know. why do something that could possibly damage your rep and ruin your life? your husband should understand that and respect how you feel

  • No it is not worth it! Keep your concepts strong and don't let him break them down .. He is most probably a p*rn addict and wants to drag you down along .. don't do it, especially if you feel weird about it! If he would force me into it, I would break up immediately.

    • Haha, you don't have to be a p*rn addict just because you want a sex tape with your wife.

    • No you don't .. but most of them do. It is p*rn that raises new expectations from the wife, and it's p*rn that convinces men to press their gfs/wives to do weird things. Plus that he will most probably put it on the internet or something ..

    • Really anti p*rn are you?

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  • Wear masks. Have fun. People might be pretty sure its you, but whatever, if it goes on the internet you can deny it. Do it in a hotel room maybe.

  • If you feel up to it; make the video, watch it together one time, then delete it.

  • Thing is, no matter how much you love and trust your husband, once you record a movie - not just publish it on the internet - but record it and it's stored on some form of media, it's out there.

    Copies can be made, accidentally, or he just forgot to tell you about them being made. Whatever it's copied onto can then be removed from your home, where more accidents can happen.

    Paranoia, I know, but we live in a chaotic, accident prone world.

  • Well you have to listen to yourself in this case, if you don't feel comfortable with it, then you don't. Simple as that.

  • Haha I didn't know there were such crazy ppl!lol anyway to my opinion it just sounds creepy

  • dont do it if you don't feel comfortable. he should understand you if you don't want to.

  • I wouldn't