My new girlfriend wants to use a strap on on me!

[Anonymous]

OK, has anyone had this happen to them? have you asked your man if you can f#*k his ass? she said that I will like it, I can't say I am convinced. I guess its not gay if its with her but it kind of freaks me out a bit. not saying I won't let her but its just not something I have heard of before. I knew chicks could do chicks but I guess I never thought of chicks doing guys? anyone done it? is it good for me or her. lady's if you have done it did you like it? and why or what do you like about it?

[Quadrophonic84]

I haven't gone as far as a strapon, but a few girls have played with my ass before and the best thing you can get out of it is if you learn how to massage your prostate or teach them to do it. There's a reason it's called the male G-spot, pretty incredible if you take the time to learn how to do it. So you could get her to work with the strap on in a way that massages your prostate and you both could get off.

[teddyluvbear]

Males don't have a G-spot, and a prostate can be dammaged easy if you stick something there, which is why males are not made to be penitrated in the first place.

[brenster]

Weird. I did hear this one story about a girl I know but when I was told it was apparently the guy who was insisting on it. As I'm not supposed to know about this, it's a bit difficult to ask her if it was good or not as she might twig that people have been talking behind her back. In any case, from what I hear, it went on for quite some time, so he must have been getting something out of it.

[udolipixie]

Others having done or not done itshouldn't influence your decision unless you're a follower.

Guys havea g spot in their butt so if done properly anal should feel good & you should get an orgasm by it.

If you're not 100% comfortable don't do it or build up to it with some anal fingering/licking.

That way you can get an idea of if you like your ass being played with

[Quadrophonic84]

Not sure what all the down votes are for, she's right on the money. The prostate gland is highly sensitive and highly pleasurable when stimulated. I have had my prostate stimulated during blow/hand jobs, and it is mindboggling how much better it was. Not only was the orgasm more intense but it also lasted longer. Once you get past the mild discomfort of entering anally with a finger, it's worth it.

[udolipixie]

I think the downvotes are because despite men being the ones having the anal g spot and actually being able to recieve pleasure from anal alone most guys are homophobic or expect to be the giver of anal to girls who will need other stimulation to get pleasure.

[farkit]

B!tch please.

link

Anal gspot? are you fking kidding? and stop being a totall ignorant idiot, women can achieve much more stronger orgasm through anal sex.

[udolipixie]

@farkat Men do have an anal gspot it tends to be how homosexual and bisexual men pleasure each other. Are you aware that anal sex differs from milking/massaging your prostate glands...o.O What evidence/statistics do you have that women can achieve much more stronger orgasm through anal sex?

[udolipixie]

Natasha Janina Valdez (2011) showed a small percentage of women orgasm from anal only.

Data table of another study women's orgasms link shows that anal doesn't tend to equal orgasm for women.

Anal experience is listed as 94% of women orgasm.

Only 6% of women who had anal did so in isolation

Those out of isolation with their anal 86% also had vaginal sex, 72% also received oral sex, 31% also had partnered masturbation.

[udolipixie]

94% womens experience with anal was orgasm 6% had only anal 86% had vaginal & anal 72% vaginal, oral & anal 31% vaginal, oral, masturbation & anal Interesting how 6% is the exact number of women's anal experience without orgasm and that 6% is anal only. The study indicated the more sex acts a woman engaged in during the encounter the more likely she was to report orgasm. That anal sex didn't give the orgasms but the other activities did.

[udolipixie]

# edit 6% had only anal 86% had vaginal & anal 72% oral & anal 31% masturbation & anal

[idkwtftoputhere]

LOL ignore those guys, I guess they never heard of a prostate. So sad.

[Anonymous]

My guy loves it when I use one on him. It was suprising how much more he cums when we do it.

[jacquesvol]

Did she say that after you asked for anal sex?

[Anonymous]

Lots of guys have rampant homophobia and are afraid of a little ass-play, even if its with a woman.

It's called "pegging".

You never had a girl stick her finger up your ass during a blow job, to hit your prostate? Dude, you haven't lived...