My pussy gets too wet?

Question

I'm not sure if this is a thing but I feel like when I have sex with my boyfriend I get too wet? And there's not enough friction? What can I do?

jpmoore89 · Accepted Answer

Your getting really wet is a sign of your body being in good physical health (good nutrition) as well as being in your sexual prime which for a woman starts in her twenties and lasts well into her 30's. There is no such thing as being too wet. This is a good thing because some women have a more difficult time getting wet enough due to hormone levels being off or lack of health/nutrition/hydration which makes intercourse potentially painful. Just realize that nature built your body to be this way during intercourse. One of the most sexy things I remember the with the last woman I was in a relationship with was when she would get so wet during my fingering or penetrating that her pubic hair would literally stick to the sides of her labia. This is primal and normal for your body. Just try to enjoy it and not worry because for a woman, its difficult at times to orgasm. Despite it seemingly appearing that the vagina and penis are physically the largest component making up the sex organs, the brain is actually the largest sex organ and if you are worrying negatively about things that are actually good such as wetness, your brain won't allow your body to feel the pleasure you were meant to experience.

Don1892 · Accepted Answer

My other half gets so ridiculously wet sometimes its either a) hard to cum or b) i slip out a lot.

Top tip? Get good at her being at a pre climax point where she's contracting her vagina a lot. Its hard to do while we are doing tons of other stuff, so in your case it helps if you the female do it. but if your worried he needd that edge to cum, get close to orgasm but dont cum until he is about to. You can tighten your vagina voluntarily but only for so long so time it with him to push him over the edge.

In terms of slipping out? I normally smile and say 'sorry but you're just so fucking wet'. Its actually a turn on.

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

I'm not sure that's due to your being 'too wet'. I get literally dripping wet and love sex so much because of how good it feels. Meaning that I most definitely feel a lot from the sufficient amount of friction, despite my juices being aplenty.

In your case, there's probably another factor at play. (ie. your boyfriend's dick size, the size of your own vaginal canal, how deep your boyfriend is going, etc..)

RayaJ · Accepted Answer

This is definitely a thing because it happens to me. We have to stop halfway through, dry off and keep going. I wish I had better advice but I really know what to do my. I find it helpful if I shower beforehand. Kinda counterproductive, I know, but it keep me a little dryer a little longer :-)

BabyBirdy · Accepted Answer

I feel you. He slips out sometimes too when we really get going. He doesn’t mind it though & says “God, you’re so wet” & smiles.

In conclusion, don’t sweat it. We’re lucky. Apparently, many women don’t get wet enough and half of women have never experienced an orgasm

ItBoglesMe · Answer

Less foreplay... Or maybe take a couple of breaks will you are having sex.. Maybe give him head to led your pussy relax a bit... I don't know...

JesseEllyson · Answer

I don't think that would bother me. In fact, I'm absolutely certain that I would freaking love it. If your boyfriend is bothered by this then I would suggest finding a different boyfriend. Seriously. Something is wrong with this guy if he is bother by you getting wet. A pussy simply can't get too wet. Not possible.

Lena97 · Answer

If you feel like it’s a problem, and you aren’t getting anything out of sex, go see a gynecologist. Even if it’s just for a consultation, they will most likely have the best options for you.

vittle1999 · Answer

Figure out what gets u super wet and try intercourse before that point.

fsu19 · Answer

If you feel like there's lack of friction then there could be a size issue with you and him

Tony_1693 · Answer

This is a non-issue. Lmao, trust me.

Dargil · Answer

Here's the high-tech solution. Stop, blot, go. Repeat if necessary. Oh yes. Leave it with him to remind him of you during the week when he takes matters in hand.

ohshee18 · Answer

So are you saying there's not enough friction for you or for him because I would say he's pretty lucky guy for me the wetter the better try to get him to go slow slow I mean very slow motion

Nocrying5 · Answer

Let it flow. And come sit in my lap. My ex was super wet and not a fluffy girl. Fluffy girls are more moist. I loved that about her.

MasterAdvice · Answer

Lube Lube Lube!

hellacray · Answer

You want friction during sex? You know they created something called lube specifically to reduce friction.

MrFro · Answer

No such thing

georgespr · Answer

its not you. its a mans job 2 get a woman wett. he's just gotta fill the hole. lmfao.

Vicforfun · Answer

Nothing wrong about being too wet.. just have fun

october29 · Answer

Buy a 'tongkat mandurah' . its a stick made of herbs u place it before intercourse for a few min and prevents u getting wet so it feels like ur tighter. No side effect I have used it, when ur ovulating sometimes its extra wet to enjoy. I have tried it no side effect up to now