My vagina hurts after getting fingered?

Got fingered really hard I'm a Virgin like I was ontop and he help my vagina lips open while fingering me and we were making out and he fingered inside of my and that hurt so much and he fingered my clit.. Now the inside of my lips are swollen and red and I took a shower and I washed down there and it stung a lot and it was bleeding help? Also how can I make a hickie go away
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Most Helpful Guys

  • The hickey will take a few days to heal, if it is visible just cover it up with make up.

    As for why you hurt after getting fingered it could be a few things. If he did not cut his nails he could have cut you with them. If you are inexperienced and he was really aggressive with you, he could have just done some damage to the tissue.

    • Well like he was drunk and we met at a park in the dark Haha I don't know sounds weird how we did it but yea I told him to and he went harder !! So it was whatever but now I'm just realizing how bad it hurts :/

    • yeah, sounds like he over did it a bit. keep yourself clean and let yourself rest and you should be fine before too long. Also soaking in a warm epsom salt bath can help you out a bit too.

  • As a virgin you should take it slow and make sure to ve carefull as you are not experienced. Also tell your boyfriend that it hurts so that he can adapt and be more carefull. Also you should get better after a couple of days if not you should probably contact a doctor.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Lol take a comb and rub it in a circular motion gently over the hicky, or a brush.
    Now about the V just don't let him near it if it hurts and is bleeding. If it starts to get worse without any contact consult with your ob

  • Being fingered hard will most often leave you a little sore and tender the next day but if the soreness stays or gets worse then it would be wise to get it checked out

  • You sound like a girl last week.

    Go to the doctor.

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  • He shouldn't be slamming his fingers in and out of you wtf. I would suggest you never let that boy touch you again he has no clue what he is doing and he will just hurt you again so what's the point?

  • Ew go get checked

  • He didn't have a clue what to do

  • Tell him to cut his nails and to stop doing it so hard

  • For the hickie use a cold spoon or ice pack. He might've popped your cherry. Just sit in hot water.