My wife caught me masturbating!

[Anonymous]

What do I do?

[Anonymous]

Wow I'm surprised she doesn't know that guys masturbate. I'm sure that's not the end of your marriage so don't let this overly get you down. Since she has no clue that you do this, I'd suggest that you sit down with her and look up the subject as embarrassing as it may be for you. Meantime, just tell her guys do that when they reach around 13 or so and that you were actually thinking of the last time you guys had sex or fooled around or whatever. This is going to be tricky so use white gloves in how you handle this. You don't want her thinking that she doesn't satisfy you or that something is wrong with your marriage sex life. She just needs to know that it means absolutely nothing against her when a guy does that. She may need this assurance. Take the rap or whatever you have to do to get pass this. But make certain to not ever let her catch you again should you continue which I suspect you will. If you were fantaszing about other things besides her, you need to work on that part of your marriage and try to fix it.

[1FastFC]

Tell her to get online and do some research. no matter whether you're single or married or in a relationship...every guy masturbates. that doesn't necessarily mean that you are not being sexually satisfied its just that well...you just have to do it sometimes! she has to understand that. it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with her .

[dcriley88]

She doesn't know you do it?

I guess it all depends on her reaction, what you were watching and what you do afterwards?

If you act guilty, then it gives reason to believe that you were doing something you shouldn't have been doing. Which in sense put you in a bigger hole to dig out of.

[l-hedoniste]

"Your turn!"

[mav0502]

ask her to join in and help...what was her reaction to her seeing you? did you use porn or anything?

[SkinnerOne]

Invite her to join you.

[Littletad]

Hmm, ask her if she wants to join in?

[wayneh]

I have done that with about every partner I have ever been with.. It is so hot masturbating in front of another person!

[wantto]

Was it a turn on for her? My wife and I do a lot of it together. Perhaps you could get her to do the same with you.

[Anonymous]

haha. Ask her to join you?