My wife offered me to sleep with her aunt?

[Anonymous]

My wifes aunt is only 2 years older then her because of marriage and family whatever its confusing. But me and my wife are hiv + both from before we met. Her aunt became hiv+ last year and has since split with her husband because he was having an affair and that's the reason she contracted it. My wife asked me if I would be willing to sleep with her aunt on occasion because of the fact we are both positve already and she can't sleep with anyone and if she could she doesn't want to anyway. We have talked about it for some time now and have all agreed that we would do this every once in awhile as a favor to her aunt. Girls if you were in this situation would you be willing to let your husband do this and guys would you be ok to do this as well. I know this is very odd and just wanted to know others input.

[Camilus]

Just because you have the virus doesn't mean it does NOT hurt you to get re-infected with another dose of HIV virus. You want to keep the virion count in your body as low as possible, and if you guys keep infecting each other then it's not good...it's not like two people living together with the same strain of the flu because you build antibodies against that disease, but you don't with HIV. Also, if her aunt is sick then you're more likely to get sick too when you are intimate with her if your immunity is low. I'd at least use a condom if you sleep with her...and if I were you I'd also might as well get a 3-way going too, lol

[dave216]

i would like too think that i would be ok with it. us guys are not so easily involved with feelings as females are. i think if problems arise, it will be because the 2 females develop feelings about you. jealousy on your wifes part, and affection on the aunts part. if you decide to proceed, monitor their feelings closely.

[Shlei3]

No I wouldn't. Reason being? Feelings could get involved and make the entire situation worse. If she is not wanting to have sex with other guys (not due to the HIV) why would she want to do it with you? I just think that that is too sticky of a situation to get into.

[3arthangel-_]

I agree with Shlei3. Feelings could get involved between you and the aunt or your would eventually get jealous!!! Please Don't Do It!!!

[TheoryOfAvarice]

It's tough to say. . . but I probably wouldn't want my husband to do this. That's just me though.

[confusedgirl101]

I couldn't,

I'd want my husband to be only mine .

[ilikegirls]

thats weird...

[-anonymous]

I could never do that.

[Anonymous]

wow that is so sweet of you and your wife. I think I would do the same in this situation. Its mutual and family so I don't see why anybody wouldnt