I kinda do, I think it's more to make myself feel better though then it is what I actually want.
I'm the only person my partner has been with with, where as I have been with a few others before we got together so talking about past relationships are very awkward for me and my partner doesn't actually know most of my past sexual history. Sometimes I really do wish I had lost my virginity to him, but I learned from my experiences and I wouldn't change the way it played out.0 0 0 0no I think that's kind of silly but its that old fashioned mentality, conservative mentality some people have. if you have it then stay a virgin if it makes you feel better
im pretty liberal though and the idea of your body as a gift to someone is kind of out there for me so I'm enjoying my sexuality now. if I get married, ill be married. my sexuality won't have anything to do with how I feel about my marriage. its just not in my nature to think that way.0 0 0 0it's a tough one, it would have been nice for my husband to be my first, but at the same time, I know what's out there and I know that I have it good and don't get curious about other men. So I guess there is a plus side to having had sex before being with your husband. So over all I think I'm happy to have knonwn other men, that is what brought me to the place I'm at right now. So no, no regrets.
0 0 0 0Your very right experiences makes us who we are. And my wife has said she's lucky to be with me after the guys before me. I don't look down on her. I just sometimes wish I was the first. Thanks for the answer.
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Well I don't know about a wife and 7 years although I'm having the same problem now because my girlfriend started having sex and "gave up" on finding the right guy just before she met me... and now she keeps asking me to have sex with other people just to make it even and stop the tension we're having..
so yes I presume its very common, but unlike you I feel bad that it happened to me.. I wish I could be like you mate!0 0 0 0I see as if you can't Change it you got let it go! Life is to short and it's not worth loosen your girl over!
I wish my mom was a virgin so I could just hang out in the ethereal void forever. It's so relaxing!
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2 1It's pretty common.
0 0 0 0Yes I whole hartedly regret it. I've only been with one other mad and it was just weeks before I met my hubby I could have and would have waited had I known what was in front of me. I was not his first and that doesn't bother me in the least. I just wish I could honestly say he was my first and only.
0 1 0 0I wish my husband would have felt this way. How did you make her feel this way? SIGH
0 2 0 0She felt that way on her own. I love her and won't judge or look down on her.
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