Need some advice about something really stressful... I had sex with my boyfriend?

so me and boyfriend just had sex but we didn't use condom cuz he said if he doesn't cum i won't get pregnant... so am i pregnant so you guys think i might be pregnant... he didn't cum tho...
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  • You could get pregnant even if he doesn't use it. You should check yourself, and, by all means, dump your boyfriend! Stand for yourself. If you let him disrespect you like that, at least don't let him disrespect another being: your baby. Because there WILL be a baby if you keep that philosophy. I'm pretty sure you don't have any help in sexual matters on your house, otherwise you wouldn't be asking this here. Please just do what I tell you: dump that guy, or at least make him wear a condom. If he doesn't use a condom, don't have sex with him. It pains me to see how many kids are born and not taking care of properly because of these things.

    • so you think i am pregnant?

    • Maybe you're not pregnant, yet, but you will be for sure if you keep doing that, seriously.

    • Those who say "if he didn't cum then you're not pregnant" are ignorant. Precum can make you pregnant. The chances aren't that high, but it can happen. What will you do if that happens? What will you tell your child when he grows up and asks what the fuck were you thinking when you didn't make his dickhead of a father use a condom? I know you're young, but you MUST take responsibility in these matters.

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  • Pregnancy can occur when no protection is used, even if he doesn't "cum" inside.
    When he penetrates, there is lube discharged from the penis to make entry easier, and sperm can be carried out with the pre cum.
    Also, if the guy is not experienced, he may start to squirt semen even before he feels tthe comtraction.
    That is why you NEVER want to have a penis inside you without protection.
    Condom, pill, shot, implant, spermicide.
    A guy usually can't tell if he is precumming or not, there is no contraction associated with it, it just seeps out as he pumps inside you.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I've had sex without a condom and he pulled out and I never got pregnant. However, you can get pregnant from pre cum. Be careful and use contraceptives next time. Being on the pill would be a smart choice if you don't want to use condoms. I wouldn't be too worried.

    • so if i start taking the pill... do i still need to wear condoms

    • If you're on the pill you do not need to use condoms if you're taking it as directed. However I suggest he still doesn't cum inside of you because that's still risky.

  • There is always that possibility.. Perhaps next time it might better to be safe than sorry.

  • Stop stressing about a pregnancy and worry about STD

    • was his first time

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  • the only way you could be pregnant is if he came

  • if he didn;t cum ok

    • i told him not to cum because he told me i won't get pregnant...

  • how sure are you he didn't cum? and don't tell me he said he didn't. how sure are "you"

    • i asked him to not to cum... and i stopped when the cum was coming

    • there is too much risk to simply just ask the internet for advice to feel assured. go buy a test when the time is right or fuck it and take a plan B.

    • im going to the doctors tomorrow to buy a next pill day

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  • You should always use a condom if he is inside you because of precum. It is unlikely you are pregnant but if you are worried buy an over the counter test.

    • precum?

    • Have a look at this link
      americanpregnancy.org/.../

    • shit... should i take the next pill day?

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  • It's fairly unlikely I had a scare similar to that the best thing you can do is wait several weeks and get a yet done. Best of luck!

  • you can get pregant from pre cum too. no guy will ever pull out when he is on the verge of cumming. that only happens in porn and anime porn. make him wear a condom, say wear a rubber or 18 years of child support your choice.

  • That's a lie you can be impregnated by the sperm cells on his precum. If you going to continue to be sexualy active. As long as you font want kids or STDs make sure your partner wears condoms and you should also start taking some kind of birth control.

  • take a pregnancy test but its not likely, depends on how long u did it for as well.

    • we did it loads of time but not for long... not more than 10 minutes and it was my 1st time as well

    • then its nothing to worry about in my opinion. 10 mins isn't long enough if he didn't cum..

    • it was my first time thooo

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  • Was there erection?

    • I mean for how long?

  • You can get pregant from pre cum, if you miss your period then do a pregnancy test.

  • if he didn't cum inside you then your not pregnant at all like not even a 1% chance that you are

    • should i take the next pill... the one you take after sex... so i dont get pregnant

    • there's no need at all because you need sperm to ger pregnant

    • yeah but better do it innit?

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  • Pre cum cam get you pregnant as well.

    • he didn't pre cum

    • Do you know what pre cum is? If he was inside you , your at risk to get pregnant. Period

  • Base on my experience , (I had sex with my girlfriend all the times without using condom). Some watery substances does came out from the tip of the penis (I'm not sure if it's pre-cum or not) . We did it all the time and nope , no pregnancy. I pull out whenever I feel like cumming. If he doesn't cum inside your vagina so your chance of getting pregnant is kinda 0%

    PS: Maybe I was wrong. Just base on my experience.

  • Whenever a penis enters your vagina, even if it's just a little bit there's ALWAYS a risk that you'll get pregnant. So yes, you might be pregnant.

  • You can still get pregnant he doesn't "cum" the if there is just precum there is a possibility.

    • whats precum?