Never been fingered?

[Anonymous]

I have never been fingered but really try it. I have a boyfriend and we'v been together for about 2months now. I really trust him but I am still really conscious, so there's a few things I want some advice on? please answerr in lost of detail.! - How do I react? I don't know how it feels what I don't really feel anything? moan?etc - Do I take everything off? or do I let him just work away under my trousers? - Will I be too tight? Cause I'v never done anything like this so what if he can't get his fingers in me? If so how I make it wider? - What if I bleed?

[Anonymous]

It all be a natural thing.

1. The way you react is that way you feel. You don't pretend a reaction. That would be silly and completely fake. And you will feel something.

2. Depends on which situation you are in. If you are thinking full interecourse or something a bit more than just a fingering and touching, then you might want to take more clothes off and untighten it. If you are doing it casually, a guy can normally get their hand down there. If you need to, untighten your clothes.

3. You can never be too tight. Anyone can get their fingers into anyone (not to sound a bit weird but its true). You only need to have a single finger to start off. You won't be able to use two until you are used to it anyway. And don't ever try to make yourself wider, because it's not good for when intercourse comes. You'll regret it.

4. You are unlikely to bleed if your being fingered. If you do, it will only happen once.

[ArtyC]

Sweety, your over thinking it. When the time comes just act natural, and let nature take it's course. If you enjoy what he is doing; your natural response will be to moan. Trousers on, or off; whatever way your most comfortable. Usually the girl might be self conscious; so at first she might want to leave it on, but once you start enjoying it; who knows. If your a virgin he won't be able to go all the way in, and he shouldn't. He should just caress it, put one finger in, and do a kind of come here motion. If he is getting to rough stop him; remember he is doing this to give you pleasure. P.S - You don't want to make it wider. A tight vagina is a beautiful thing. Enjoy

[Anonymous]

Foreplay,kissing,love.

Just go to a place where nobody can c you both

Let him to love you and you would feel what to do

Take off ur panties,and spread ur legs he would loveeeee it,u don't have to be naked,i think it would turn him off more.If you are a virgin,make sure it's the person you really love and he loves you too.U know.especially if you are underage sweety ;)

take care,xoxo

[Asianbabo]

It should just come naturally, don't worry. Let it play out how it plays out. And I haven't met a guy who believes in "too tight".

[wannabe]

firstly hv you ever touch yourself? I know a girl who find its weird but practice on yourself first, believe me you hv to! before he does it, get comfortable with ur own finger(s) before his. okay? =D

take it slow, start from outside and dnt forget to cut ur nails

[Anonymous]

Just react naturaly. Tell him how you really feel and guide him through what you want him to do as far as how many fingers goes. Everything really boiles down to how comfertable you are with everything. If he's a good guy, he will cater to your every preference. And as far as not being able to get a finger in, that probly won't be a problem. If you can get one of yours in, his will be able to also.