Never given head?

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 5 months now. I've given him hand jobs before, but I've never given head to anyone so I just skipped that and we went on to having sex. We have sex pretty often so I'm not sure if it bothers him that I don't give him head, but I really want to try it and see if I like it. I'm just so nervous that I'm going to be bad at it or that it'll be awkward. I don't know if he knows that I've never done it before. Any advice on this would be very very appreciated! How do you make leading up to it not awkward? While I'm making out with him do I just go down there and go for it? I feel like while I'm doing it it will be weird having him watching me. How do you even do it? I don't want to spit and seem completely inexperienced so is swallowing gross or is it not that bad? I really want to do it but I always get so nervous that I back out and we end up having sex. I know the whole "no teeth" thing, but other than a girl using her teeth during a blow job how hard is it to give a bad one? Since I've never done it I don't want it to be awful. I'm so clueless! Please help me! (You don't need to answer all the questions, those are just things I'm nervous about)
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Most Helpful Girls

  • The best thing I can tell you is to slowly make your way down there during foreplay. He'll know what you're planning most likely, and settle in for it. Keep a hand around him, as if giving a hand job, and put your lips right next to your thumb and forefinger, create a little suction, and move away! Use your tongue a bit, remember to use the other hand and keep other parts in play, and you should be fine. You can always ask him to tell you what he likes. As for the spit/swallow debate, I swallow usually. It's easier on the taste buds, believe it or not. But if you don't want to, generally men give a signal before they go, and you can stop and finish it with your hands until you're more comfortable with the idea.

  • Ok well if you cover your teeth with your lips like a old grandma and your not really sucking your just kinda moving your lips up and down it pouching your tongue along the bottom of it moving it in and out id guess you'd say. As for swallowing I wouldn't try right now.It took me a long time to do it and I don't love it and I don't do it all the time just move back if he is about to cum. But giving head for that long can be hard if I where you I would just do it before sex. That way you don't have to do it to to long lol

  • You probably will be bad at it at first. I know I was. Just tell him that you've never done it and you'd like to try it for the first time on him. He'll be fine. That's totally flattering for a guy. And if you tell him to help you out, to coach you a bit, he should love it. Guys like it when they get to tell us what to do sexually, and I really don't think any guy would turn down a chance to help make a girl better at blowing him.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Number one talk to the guy and discuss his likes and dislikes. Let him know its your first time and ask him to teach you gently. Like all forms of sex it is best to talk it out "that feels good" or "right there but a little slower" or "that hurts" you get the picture. As far as swallowing you have a better chance the first time "and every time" if you can get it as far back in your throat as possible when he releases.

    Bad head? If you don't hurt him it can't be bad. Just follow his lead you will be great.

  • However you got to the hand job point is where you start. A good blow job is mainly a hand job. As too whether to do it or not, you don't mention, does he lick you? I would suggest you never suck on anyone who hasn't licked you first.

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