Sit her down and tell her firmly and seriously that it needs to stop, that when you say no you aren't just playing around.
I'm a slight masochist and my Ex really would get into spanking me, and I would say no and stop and it just seemed to be a part of the game. I was serious though and eventually I just had the talk out that we couldn't play at all anymore because I need to be listened to when I say No.
Seriously, sometimes the other person needs to know that it isn't just goofing around and that it really hurts. Particularly if it has been part of sexy play in the past.0 0 0 0That's a bit violent of her. Sorry to hear that. I would tell her flat out and in a nice way that you don't like to be hurt like that. I am not really sure why she would want to break your nose. It's a bit odd. My brother and his girlfriend are violently affectionate with one another which I guess works for them. Some people are just like that. Just tell her straight out that you would like her to not be so rough with you.
0 0 0 0You are very funny - please write more! The way you write about her and "heinous deed" - LOL! Fabulous!
Although I really understand this is painful for you and I do hope the next thing you write is that she has stopped this. Good luck.
Oh - the whole situation with the nose breaking...ummm...not so good. I think she's a bit off center if you know what I mean.0 0 0 0
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Start lifting weights and eventually you'll be able to grab her arms and stop her.
A quicker, and better, solution would be to tell her seriously to knock it the hell off. If it's bruising you, then she should understand the seriousness of your request. If she doesn't take you seriously, try one more time. If that doesn't work, then sounds like it's time for you to move on.0 0 0 0The next times she does it, do it back to her. If she complains tell her that's how you feel. The part about fantasizing about breaking your nose, that would seem to be an indicator of a larger problem, you should probably at least talk to her about that.
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0 0 0 030sGal is right. She wants to break your nose? Hardly a girlfriend act of love...
I would suggest telling her. She needs to find something else to make her happy, something that doesn't leave you looking like she beats you. :)0 1 0 0
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