No Head.. Deal breaker?

So when it comes to sex my girlfriend is a freak she wants it all the time, but she's a total pillow princess about it. (Google it if you don't know) and she only wants it in the bedroom, no public, no random quicky at a friends party, etc etc. The real problem with that is she is very small and after a great night of sex she is sore for a week or so and refuses to do anything else. I've dropped hints, given her magazines about other types of sex written by women for women, and she's never read it and tossed it out before even opening it. It's a problem in our relationship, we've been going out for over a year, live together, mostly everything else is great.. I'm just sexually frustrated. Guys: Would this be a deal breaker for you? Girls: Thoughts?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • I don't know how many woman will agree with me when I say this, and I will probably get a lot of hate mail.

    But for me, sex is one of the most important intermacy factors in a relationship.

    you stop having sex and everything else stops.

    It's like a chain of events.

    It holds everything together.

    Its what forms communication, playfullness, laughter, love.

    My partner and I have sex whenever we feel like it~ We get toey at the shops, we go to the toilets, or the change rooms, or go for a drive somewhere.

    He plays footy and on grandfinal night we snuck off in the middle of the night, went to the meeting room near the change rooms and f***ed like rabbits.

    We will be on a road trip, feel like having sex, pull over at a rest and revive spot and go from there, sometimes ill be naughty and start rubbing him, getting him going whilst he is driving, even give him a bit of a lean over, just becasue I have such a high sex drive, and sex is what I think makes you feel closer.

    So to be honest, you have needs which clearly isn't imprtant to your girlfriend, and isn't a priority in her eyes.

    Some people just don't like sex, and that is fine~ If you wernt to enjoy sex either.

    But you do, and either you are going to fall into temptation (when arised) or your going to not want to be affectionest with her, as this is a rejection for you, and will to be short, your relationship is screwed.

    She needs to find someone who doesn't have a high sex drive... Like a 80 year old.

    And you need to find someone who enjoys and wants sex as much as you do.

    F*** having a partner who never wants to have sex and be spontainious.

    • Your are correct about the rejection part, and it is affecting my affection to her. How should I explain this to her?

    • Yes. If you can't communicate with each other either, then what do you two have?

Most Helpful Guy

  • I looked up 'Pillow Princess' on this site

    --> www .urbandictionary .com/define.php?term= Pillow % 20 Princess

    I know your with her for over a year but I think you should find some1 who will appreciate you man.

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  • Well if a guy is a pillow princess then its off

  • Well then prepare for a very boring Marriage -_-

  • Not a deal breaker for me.

    You seem selfish

    • If I was selfish I would have dumped her and moved on.