"No Homo" Why do guys say some super gay sh*t then say no homo...?

I personally think that it's homophobia (fear of being perceived as homosexual) However I think if you say some extremely gay sh*t...and then say "no homo" that's like in court where a bad question is asked then the opposite lawyer yells "Objection!" but it's already in the Jury's mind. You can't disclaim your homosexual comment by saying it isn't homosexual. That's DUMB. You said it it's out there, you meant it, you may as well own it. Don't get me wrong I love the gays I just think that phrase "no homo" screams Yes Homo! QUESTION: How do you feel about this... contradictory word?
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  • Partly it is concern about being seen as homo, and concern about the guy thinking you are making a pass at him.

    Some guys can compliment another man on his physically attractive traits without feeling like they are gay, they are that confident in themselves and comfortable in their own sexuality. But, this is rare, and yeah the man doing it will be perceived as gay. So when I do compliment a guy who's put a lot of effort into his physique and it shows, I will tell him great job, you look great. Or if I see a young man feeling down has no luck with women, thinks he's ugly, but I happen to know he possesses the facial traits that girls do think are attractive, I will comfort him and point out he is a handsome young man.

    However, online, with text, it becomes hard to be certain one's intentions. So I feel the need to preface or postfix "no homo" to make sure my intents ARE CLEAR.

  • Yeah when I'm around my friends and I say something "gay" I just admit it. And say "yeah that sounded kinda gay" and my friends the same. or if I wanted to screw with them get into it a little and act the part, in a joking matter no touching. No offense to gay people, you help keep the population down, give orphans homes, and can't help but like what you like. I'll respect that.

    • But still don't want to see two guys kissing.

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  • I think some people have really narrow constraints on what being a man and heterosexual means. They get scared they will be perceived otherwise if they step outside of the stereotype.

    • This. RIght here. THIS.

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  • Totally agree. And I think your theory about it being homophobia is also right on.

    BTW - it reminds me of:

    https://youtu.be/LtfQg4KkR88
  • A lot of guys are doing it as a joke. Instead of saying something that might sound slightly gay they intentionally make it sound as gay as possible then say 'no homo'.

    • Even gay people will do this as a joke. I think it's just a guy thing.

  • Listen here, iAmAwesome18.

    I MAKE THE RULES.

    WHEN I SAY NO HOMO, ME NO HOMO. K? BAI.

    • really because it seems like you and sir who remains anon with the temper sure do seem so.

  • warning beware replying, we already lost free speech on this topic even relevant replies will be punished as "irrelevant" or trolling. dont write anything about gay.

  • Ha ha my friend uses that disclaimer incessantly

  • Hey I tell my guy friends if I think they're handsome all the time and I don't say "no homo" because I'm comfortable in my sexuality and I don't care if people do go on thinking I'm gay because that doesn't offend me in any way, shape, or form.

    • I mean the guys who do say it. If you don't good for you.

    • OH! Sorry I misread the question.. I think it's because guys are so afraid to be considered homosexual.

  • Haha. My friends overuse this phrase so much. It seriously doesn't mean anything.

  • Its out of fear. Iv used large butt plugs on myself before even though I'm straight.

    Cause a prostate massage feels amazing.

    But all my guys friends and homophobic. And say things like No homo all the time.

  • I like to deepthroat cocks.

    Nohomo.

    • extremely homo

  • I am NOT a homo!

    • ...is that your contribution to this question? And nobody said you were ANONYMOUS USER.

    • Stop! I am not gay!

    • Oh and stitches BETTER get BA!

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