No pleasure when masturbating?

[Anonymous]

Whenever I masturbate, I don't feel any pleasure really. I've never had sex before, but I know I don't have a weak sex drive, 'cause I do get turned on easily. But whenever I rub my clit, I don't feel anything good, I get an intense feeling but that's just because of how sensitive it is. I don't find it too enjoyable, and I'm nowhere close to an orgasm. Can someone please explain to me what I'm doing wrong? How come I'm not getting any pleasure? And for the girls, do you have any tips for the clit that really feel good? Thanks.

[myths]

Have you ever heard the classic joke: "What is the largest sex organ of the human body"? Every one says the penis, followed by the vagina but guess what- it's the brain.

I bring this up because it's your mindset that's every bit as responsible for your ability to have an orgasm as your genitals. Getting pleasure from maturating or even from a partner's contact has much to do with how turned on you are.. Focus on things that make you horny, fantasize, turn you on, and get your juices flowing. When done properly, the touch to your clitoris should be the final step of your pleasure (not the only one).

A lot of girls get disappointed because they can't orgasm through masturbation but the key isn't to use masturbation as just a method to come but rather to accompany the good feelings in your mind. When done properly, it'll feel fantastic.

[Asker]

Thanks so so much! Now that you say that, I think this is the exact reason why I haven't really been feeling it.

[myths]

You're quite welcome- good luck. You'll get there. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, just enjoy the moment and it'll happen.

[mel87]

You've just gotta find what works for you! Just keep trying and relax. If you're tense, you're not concentrating on what you are doing. Just be comfortable with yourself and try different ways! Good luck!