No underwear when going out?

Me and my girl went to different clubs last night because I was hanging out with some friends out of town and she was staying in but before I left we meet up and had a few words. She was looking very sexy in this dress she was wearing so after the club we meet up at her place but I told her not to take the dress she was wearing off because we were going to have sex and I wanted to see her one last time lol So when I got to her place and there she was laying in bed in a sexy way with that dress on (teasing)..I was Like wow so we started making out and I notice she didn't have any underwear on. I asked her why she said she didn't wear one to the club, I was like why? then she replied because if she did then the line would have shown under that dress. So basically she won't wear underwear with dress because the lines would show? IMO I don't think that's "lady like" no to wear underwear when she go out. So I was just wondering if this is normal?
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  • Personally I'd wear a thong or somethign that doesn't show lines. But I'm not sure it's your place to ask her to put on underwear. You should talk to her about it, definitely, and tell her your feelings, but in the end, it's her decision. If she honestly believes nothing will show and it's not a big deal, you probably don't have much to worry about. I'm surprised she does it, though; it would make me terribly self conscious.

    • I told her why didn't she just wear a thong but she said it would still show so I don't know but yeah I think its my place because she's my girl and I think I should be concern whether or not she wear a underwear to go to to a club

    • In the end, the issue is whether you think you can trust her. Do you think she's going to flash her goodies at a club, or worse? If so, you're in the wrong relationship.

  • I can understand that she didn't want her panty lines to show. But going out dancing and stuff, I would think there's a chance that at some point, too much could be revealed. There are panties out there that don't show lines. So just ask her if she could look for some of those because you're not real comfortable with her going out without undies. Or she can wear colored tights under the dress.

    • thanks for your input :-)

  • Not a lot of girls do it but I can see why she didn't want to wear one so she won't have panty lines especially if the dress is tight. Personally I don't do it but I'm sure a lot of other girls do. I don't think its lady like at all. I think you're setting yourself up to be seen down there.

    • lol yeah but she don't usually do it though

    • I'd hope not...

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  • It's perfectly normal, and more common than you'd think.

    I'm surprised someone aged 25-29 is only learning about this now.

    • bro this is not news to me..I just wanted to get some ideas out there consider all my other females friends are out town..calm down buddy

    • Why do overly sensitive people always see rage in these answers? I'm perfectly calm dude.

    • rage? lol no comment

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  • I think there are quite a few girls who don't wear undies, for a variety of reasons...Use your imagination.

  • LOL I can imagine your shock. and I agree with Skinny G

    • lol I wasn't totally shock because in the pass I know some girls who never wear panties but I always thought it was un lady like

    • Lol well I can understand your feelings. I doubt the queen of England goes to clubs without underwear on ;)

  • A lot of girls do this, but you're totally right...that's not classy. There ARE underwear that prevent panty lines from showing, there are also patches to cover any private parts that girls can easily attach for both a girls' boobs and her vulva and there are thongs.

    • yea ill talk to her about getting those who doesn't really show a line so she can get them or better yet ill just get it for her myself for v-day lol can't really imagine me going to victoria secrets though lol terrifies me

  • Girls usually wear panties, rarely some don't.

  • hmmm OK I could understand I guess with pants on where you don't want the lines to show and you know that no one is gonna see anything but to be out in a skirt/dress with none on? that's kinda tartish imo. I'd keep an eye on that one. is she kind of an exhibitionist?

  • It is unlady-like.

    I don't think the majority of girls do this but many do.

    Basically she doesn't care if someone sees her vajayjay.

    • lol that's what I was saying