Nobody wants me because I'm pregnant?

Since my boyfriend left me I've been trying to fine anyone that would like me. But I've got that little bump that is pretty noticeable if I wear a sexy shirt out anywhere. And the guys will see me but once they realize I'm pregnant they leave. What can I do? I've been really depressed as I'm used to all the guys attention when I want it. Being pregnant is like the worst thing that could've happened. What do I do?
0 0

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

25 13
  • When I was pregnant, my boyfriend also left me...but now I have been seeing a guy for about a year, and he loves both my and I greatly. Don't settle for just anyone...I know it's hard to be a single parent (first-hand) But you need to find someone who is ready to potentially take on the responsibility of being father-figure. And I know it seems like you won't find one now, but you will. You could always do online dating...state right away that you are a single parent...those who don't mind will contact you, and those who do, won't. It simplifies things a lot. Good Luck, and hang in there!

    • *ahem...me and my son...I meant. lol

  • Awww Hun just think of yourself for a bit instead of guys read loads of books get ready for baby coming join a prenatal exercise class then enjoy your baby then start thinking about someone else

    and there are some guys that don't care if your pregnant because they will love you but you need to make a friendship first

  • you should worry about being a mother right now and not getting a man. men know you have a lot you need to handle and that a man is not on that list. you are worrying about the wrong thing. men come and go your baby needs you to propare for him/her

    • I am preparing for him/her. How is finding someone to love going to interfere?

    • Well then you need to accept that most men don't want a pregnant gf! What guy wants the burdin of taking care of a child that isn't there's? And most assume you are with someone as to the reason you are pregnant. You gotta realize guys just aren't attracted to that just like most guys don't like ugly women

  • thats what happen when you decide to have a kid with the wrong person.

    the true is... its gonna be hard to find a person who will accepts you like that. I'm being realistic.

    most of them will also think your married so, they won't approach you. ad if they approah you, and findout ure pregnant they will get scared and will leave you because they don't wanna be with a person whos pregnant of someone else.

    • Ya. I don't think I decided anything. But why do they get scared? Its just a baby! I just want to find someone who can help me through these times. I'm a college kid going through this by myself. I just want someone to be with me. Is that so wrong?

    • cuz they will think ure slut, or things like that. also, they will think they will need to be the father of the kid.. its kinda bad... ur Ex is deffinitely a ****...

    • I've only had sex with 2 people my whole life. How is that slutty?

    • Show All
  • RIght now I feel that it's more important to you on focusing to be a mom. Worrying about boys brings unneccessary stress and you already have enough on your plate. Focus on taking care of yourself and preparing for your baby. The right guy will come someday.

    • Yes but I'm so depressed since my boyfriend left me. I just want someone with me to help and be there with me to love me.

    • I understand but sometimes you have to put your feelings aside and stand up for yourself and your child. You have to be strong!

  • how many weeks have you been pregnant, have you thought of a abort?

  • I for one find pregnant ladies super sexy and would love to get it on :P

    man prego = sexy IMO

    • Lol. Well thankyou. You're one of the few.

    • and then when your no pregnant longer what happens? he leaves, and you just dug yourself another hole... use your brain...

  • I wouldn't have a problem with a women being pregnant with someone elses child. He left you and not the other way around. If a guy loves you he should accept the whole package.

  • Its sad that your boyfriend left you, being pregnant is a beautiful thing. I find it sexy and would love the opportunity to be with a pregnant lady. Spend time with your family and friends and let nature take its course. The right man will come along, there are many men out there that wouldn't have a problem taking on another mans child. Good luck hun.

  • your main focus should be your child. But with that being said I wouldn't worry to much about it you will find someone that likes you for you

  • why not just worry about taking care of your child...you can date single dads after you give birth don't worry about it now

  • get an abortion, or give the baby up for adoption

    • adoption thumbs up abortion thumbs down

    • it's a life

    • Abortion?! What are you thinking?

  • It must be so awful for you that the person you trusted so much, left when things got intense. I'm really sorry that happened to you.

    I don't know what its like, but I do know that you're gonna have to take responsibility - and it sounds like you are. Kudos for keeping the baby :)

    Maybe you won't find him right now, but you'll get your prince charming. And he'll love your baby too.

    A friend of mine was born when his Mom was in a similar situation to yours. After he was born and everything she did date. His mom eventually got married and now his mom and stepdad are the happiest couple ever. And his stepdad is an amazing dad!

    Hang in there honey!