Not as in whips and chains, but in general?

[AdamThomas]

Do you prefer your partner to be dominant, submissive, or a bit of both? (I'd like to hear both girls' and guys' answers).

[pr3ttybr0wn]

I prefer a guy who is on the dominant side. A submissive guy is a turn off because that makes me feel like the man and I want a guy who is the boss aka running sh*t. that does not mean that he is superior to me or abusive, but just a guy who is the alpha but at the same time respects my wishes. like he can be the boss but if its something that I am not cool with at all then he needs to take notice of that.

[michie]

If he's dominant alpha male, I'd dump him for thinking he's superior to me. If he's completely submissive, I'd also dump him for being a weakling. A bit of both would be good mix, with each of us having different strengths in different areas. That way, we would depend on each other to do better, rather than having one as another's pet.

[michie]

And because it is impossible for any guy to be superior in everything (unless the girl is dumb), the fact that he can be submissive in certain areas mean that he can admit his weaker points. That is attractive. Guys who feel obligated to act tough in every situations are turn-offs.

[AdamThomas]

Well I don't know if I agree with that, surely one can be dominant/submissive without being superior/inferior?

[AlessandraRossa]

I like him to be dominant definitely! I'm submissive . But from time to time can chenge roles

[Anonymous]

mix of both. most of the time I'm dominant while other times she is

[Opinion Owner]

thanks for BA :)

[AdamThomas]

No probs...

[forever_broken]

Definitely a bit of both.

[frustratedchump06]

probably A, the girls who pick A, I hope they become victims of domestic violence

[AdamThomas]

What a stupid comment.

[frustratedchump06]

why? I hate how girls are turned off by submissve guys

[asianfreak]

definitely a hybrid of both is better

[99PROBLEMS]

I want a strong, dominant (and a bit aggressive) man

[Lj236]

a bit of both works for me

[Anonymous]

Dominant, submissive guys are annoying because it just feels like they don't really want you. I prefer to be a mixture of both but more to the submissive side.