Your being so female :) In your thinking I mean. You are seeking a relationship, why? Have you been taught that is what you are supposed to want? Well boys are not taught that. They want to have a good time with their friends, drink some beer, play a little basket ball and have sex occasionally. They have no desire for a relationship. Girls don't seem to understand that. What girls generally do is manipulate the chosen male into a relationship by offering sex or withholding sex until they get certain promises. You are not exercising your option of requiring something in return for sex. I know, it sounds like prostitution, and in a sense I guess it is. You hold out what they want until you see signs of getting what you want. It is the game that is played. :)
0 1 4 2typical female? shouldn't it make a guy feel good about him self about being wanted by a girl. I could date anybody I wanted to but I want him out of everybody I choose him. I would feel good if it was me, but that's just female thinking. I love to sit back back have a beer hang out have sex occasionally so does he we do it together. so its been going on for a while I've developed feelings. I mean sorry if I would want a relationship after this but I guess that's how we females think.
Yes it should, and probably one day it will. I know I look back to when I was that age and how bad I was to a couple of girls that were very nice to me. I often wonder if they ever found the love they deserved from me. I was too immature to be thinking in the same way they were. You sound like a great female, and I think one day soon you will find a guy mature enough to appreciate you :) My point to was to explain how the guys are thinking, so you can use the information to get what you want. :)
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That's all they like you enough for. As much as you may not to hear that.
There are three categories.
1.)Relationship only interest.
2.)Sex only interest.
3.)In between interest.
There may be something about your demeanor, character, or personality that shows them you wouldn't be seen in a more serious view. Yeah, it's ignorant. But, that's how us humans are.
How do you carry yourself? What are your physical specs?1 0 0 0I really appreciate your honesty that's what I want. Your right about them only wanting sex, and I think I figured that afterward. Well I'm confident about myself and how I look. Guys tell me they love how I carry myself. I take care of myself and my body. I never thought that maybe that's what guys pick up about me that I'm not serious about having a relationship, but I am. most of them keep coming back why do you think that is?
Hard to say. Maybe they liked the sex, and want a round 2. How much times goes by until some of them come back, though? And maybe you might want to get straight to the point you want a relationship from the get. As that would normally throw some guys off, and you can catch what they are really there for by their reaction.
within the same week. I stay at his place and he comes to mine.
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Men don't attach emotion and sex the way women do. So a man can sleep with you and be enjoying you and like you IN THE MOMENT, but it DOES NOT mean he wants a relationship with you. If you want a relationship, then establish that before you sleep with him. That way he knows your expectations.
1 1 0 0Sex usually means nothing to men. Just because he is willing to have sex with you, does not mean he thinks anything about you. A guy can hate a girl & still have sex with her. If you want a guy to like you for the right reasons, don't give him sex.
0 2 1 1im in the same situation and I wanna be serious but he is being immature... but anyway, have you tried talking to him about a relationship? or like seeing you guys more than just friends
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7 3try keeping your legs closed until you are dating. if they can't wait for that then move on.
0 1 1 0we learn from our mistakes. believe me I have and I am moving on.
It's the opposite with me...
0 0 0 0If it is a relationship you are looking for it's best to keep the goodie's locked up until you are at least dating and doing things other than sleeping together.
0 2 0 0I know how you feel. just don't do it anymore if you feel like you haven't been treated the way you deserve. if you like it casual then fine, but if you don't and you tell him you don't, and he doesn't respond to it, just leave it, he's not worth it.
0 1 0 0Try not sexing them? I know there's girls who I fool around with and stuff but I wouldn't dream of ever going out with them, 'cos they're my friends. So essentially, like... You get 'friends-with-benefits' zoned, hahaha. Try not sexing them but being interested, y'know. Might do the trick?
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