Omg! Please help! I just saw my best friend's boyfriend's dick !!!!!!!!!

[Anonymous]

i feel horrible, like such a nasty person.. i just saw my best friends boyfriends dick! and I saw him jack off and stuff, and I have a boyfriend of 8 months! is this cheating? should I tell my friend?PLEASE HELP ME

[ilovelegs]

Hmm let's see. You were talking to your bff's boyfriend on msn and it sounds like maybe you were kinda flirting and talking about his package, and then he starts out with this, "do you want to see." But I understand how you never suspected he'd actually send you a pic. He was quite an a*s to do what he did considering his girlfriend is your bff. I don't know what you've already told him or how you handled it after he sent the pic. But if you didn't blast off at him you need to do that and threaten to tell your friend if he ever says anything. After that, you should quit talking with him on msn or even texting and then put this behind you. I'm almost sure he'll never say anything and you shouldn't either. Just forget this incident and learn by it. It's not the end of the world nor is it that much. I'd say he and your best friend will part ways before too long anyway because when a guy does that shit his relationship doesn't mean that much to him anyway. If he ever says anything later on, just don't admit it because it's not anyone elses business. Meantime, just don't be too encouraging to your friend about this dude.

[MHseven]

that is disgusting. no-way . if you tell your friends then you could be signing your own death wish. you are in a tight spot.

i think the best way to get this guy off your back is to announce this in a public place - in front of his friends and yours and you best friends next to you, that will get him back for what he did...

he will be so embarrassed ... he will never have anything to do with you two ever again.

your probably thinking that if you were to do that , it will scar the relationship between your friend and her boyfriend , I assure you, it has a huge hole through it already.

[VolleyBallBaby0xx]

Your not a horrible person. He's an asshole, and I know if I was your friend I would want you to tell me and I would understand. Tell your friend exactly what happen, It would be worse if you tried to hide it from her. And tell your boyfriend. If he's a good boyfriend he'll kick that guys ass! lol Don't feel bad, come clean because you did nothing wrong.

p.s when you see that asshole slapp his dirty ass right across the face! lol

[RedneckGirl-06]

Not if you didn't ask him to show it too you and consent to him posting it... and I would have to say yes to telling your friend...if he is going to show you his dick then he probably doesn't care for your friend all that much...just be very clear in your explination so there is no confusion as to where you stand on it...

[analohastar]

that is disgusting! I would definately tell your friend. he wast the one who suggested it in the first place. I don't think you did anything wrong considering that you had no idea that he would actually show you. but HIM - that is sick beyond belief and you should really let your friend know about it.

[methatsme]

How in the world did you see that? Did you walk in on him. If it was an accident then I'd say it's not cheating and you shouldn't feel bad. Now if he randomly displayed such a thing, I would say he's the nasty one. It's only cheating if you asked for such a thing.

[Subotai]

DId you do anything to it. If not I wouldn't tell him. Its only gonna make him nervous. I guess if a saw a girl jacking off I might be tempted to look but that's really not a good idea its an invasion of privacy but it could get you in trouble. A lot of guys in the midst of rubbing one out would love a hand if you know what I mean and that would definitely be cheating

[dave216]

Well, show him your stuff, call it even, and forget about it. It is no big deal, relax. :)

[methatsme]

Nah, it doesn't sound like you're a horrible person. He sounds a little sick for real. If I would tell anyone, it would be his girlfriend.

[lefthand]

You were flirting with him and things followed a logical course. I think you can forget about it except that you now have opened the door to having sex with your friend. That is an issue you will have to deal with.

[Jarett]

I would tell your best friend. If he's showing you then he's showing other girls. She needs to know. You'd want her to tell you if your boyfriend was showing other girls

[stevie123]

You are not a horrible person. You saw a dick, no big deal. You didn't ask for it or touch it, so no cheating is involved. Guys will do things like that, so get used to it. Once, I knew a girl that was dating someone that I know.
She was hot for me, but I don't fool around with my friends girls. She asked why don't I try to get some?
I said (jokingly, like you) I can't ask to see your boobs, but if you voluntarily flash me, there is nothing I can do about it. She then pulled up her shirt and flashed me!! Just happens, it's only flesh. Don't worry.

[Killy]

Wow, what a baller. I'm still laughing.

[aussie_cfnm_guy]

Its definitely not cheating and you have nothing to feel bad about. You didn't ask him to see it. He asked you so you have nothing to feel guilty about.

[Anonymous]

Why, or, how did you see it? If he just ran up to you and pulled his pants down that's one thing, if you asked him to masturbate in front of you, that's another.