One night stand (with my crush) - just oral sex: Yes or no?

So I have a crush on a guy... we see each other every weekend, but never talk, etc. But now I was a bit drunk and when we walked from the bar (to the taxi stop) he started kissing me... and asked for sex. But it was my time of the month, so I just gave him a blow job. Is that a no go: oral sex for one night stand?
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He isn't searching for relationship, maybe just friends with benefits.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Guys in general love blow jobs. But he could have returned the favour. A little adventure.

    A little blood never hurt any guy. For me I just start by washing away any excess blood then chow down. Afterwards I wash the blood off my face. No big deal. It's great!

    I have tasted a lot of foul things - such as asparagus.

    Blood has a rather mild flavour but it doesn't overpower the natural female flavour so it's still a win win situation.

  • Nothing wrong with it. You can work on a relationship with him, or take it farther the next time you see him. Unless you really just want friends with benefits, you should talk about it.

Most Helpful Girl

  • No. you have a crush on him so I'm assuming you might want to date him. if you do this, he won't ever want to date you

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  • this will jue be a booty call relationship

  • Go for it:))) wats the biggie?

  • thats why you have a hole in the back

    • That has a different flavour but still pretty good and highly erotic.

  • If you want him to see you as more than just a one night stand (which if you have a crush on him, you most likely do), this probably isn't a good idea... at all.

  • Just do period sex...

  • If you have a crush on him, why would you just want a one night stand? Wouldn't you prefer to date him or something? Anyway, for a one night stand, so who really cares

    • So you have a crush on him and you rather just have sex with him? I assume it's strictly a physical thing then. It sounds like you've already given him a blowjob to him anyway, so there's not much of anything you can do to change it. Back to the original question: you got him off and that's what he was looking for. It's fine as far as that goes.

    • But is it OK to give oral just for one night stand (OK, I like him a lot and know something about his life, I wouldn't give oral to a total stranger - but he doesn't know that)... he might think I do that with all guys. What would you think about a girl who would give oral like that?

    • That's what I meant with the last line in the past comment. He wanted to get off and he did, so I think that was okay to do given the situation. To me, having sexual contact before a relationship would make me think that she has sex all of the time with many other guys. I would not think that "this girl has a crush on me and I'm the only one she's doing this for." Besides, he said "I'm not looking for a relationship," which generally means "I just want sex with you."