Opinions on unprotected sex?

I'm on birth control (0.15mg Kariva/Azurette) Was wondering what your opinions are with having sex with a significant other while on birth control without a condom. However, without finishing inside. thanks :)
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  • When taken correctly, birth control works extremely well. You should be fine.

    I am not able to do that simply because I'm very paranoid. Lol I'm on the depo shot but I still like to use condoms and so does my boyfriend. Both of us just like to take extra precautions.

    However, I have no issues with other people who are on birth control and decide to not use condoms. That's their choice and it doesn't affect me.

  • I take the same because pill you take and I've had sex with my unprotected (with him coming inside of me) and haven't gotten pregnant in the two years we've been together.

    As long as you take it the same time every day (I set an alarm to remind me), it's over 99% effective.

    • Do you always take them at the same exact time? Or do you miss them by minutes?

    • Oh really! & is there a difference? I take mine usually within the same time everyday - 8:00-8:15 pm

    • Well, sometimes it varies (not necessarily the exact minute) but always around 8:00pm (the same as the QA apparently) :-P

  • You should be safe. The pill is like 95% effective on its own. Pulling out is 73% effective on its own. The odds of both methods failing at the same time is slim. I take my pill every day and my boyfriend always pulls out. We've never even had a scare in 4 years together.

    • really?! never had a scare? We've had unprotected sex w/o a condom twice and he pulled out and even though I'm on the pill, it still scares me.

    • Well there's always a chance with any method of birth control. However, you're probably over thinking this. If you take your pill every day at the same time, and watch any medications you're on, you're pretty safe. Plus, if he's pulling out correctly, there should only be, at best, small traces of sperm inside you. Most of his swimmers end up on your stomach, which lessens your odds even more. Personally I think you're fine here but use condoms if you're still worried that much.

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  • I would imagine that the chances of becoming pregnant would be comparable to wearing a condom and pulling out sans birth control. There's nothing wrong with unprotected sex as long as you two are being cautious of your ovulation cycle, the placement of his ejaculation and are using some other form of birth control.

    Keep in mind that you are exposing yourself to the risk of contracting an STI, if one is present.

    • Yes, being cautious of ovulation is a great idea thank you! Him and I are each others' first and only sexually active with each other, so there wouldn't be any worries for STI's.

    • I know but suppose you contract one by accident from a non-sexual activity. It's not very likely - but possible.

  • I think it's fine with a partner even finishing inside would be fine with me. to me the point of birth control is that you are trusting it's effectiveness of it, if my girlfriend was on the pill I would be comfortable not using a condom during sex and finishing inside of her

    • but I also consider using a birth control pill as having protected sex if the protection you are seeking is not having a baby

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  • I always have unprotected sex with my boyfriend (I'm also on BC) and he finishes inside me. I personally love it, it's so much better than using condoms.

    • But there are 30% chances of pregnancy even with it.

    • I want to have unprotected sex so badly, I'm just worried! I envy you lol. How many mg is your BC?

    • It's Gianvi (Drospirenone/Ethinyl Estradiol 3mg / 0.02mg), I've been taking BC for a couple of years even before I became sexually active due to irregular periods. But you shouldn't be as worried since he's pulling out :). @Greyhorse: I have a lower chance of getting pregnant due to certain conditions that I have, one of it includes of having irregular periods, so I take BC to regulate my periods.

  • Birth control counts as protection if you know the person doesn't have an STD. If you want something extra use spermicide, that way he can finish inside you and you don't need to use a condom or anything.

  • Better to have that extra protection than not. Girlfriend and I use the pill and condom. We would rather have the extra layer of protection than not. All because we both realize that shopping for the extra protection is still more affordable than the pregnancy test, and the costs that come with having a pregnancy.

  • me and my girlfriend don't use condoms - we're in a serious, exclusive relationships and she takes the pill. if taken properly, it's no more risky than using a condom, and I trust her not to go psycho on me and stop taking it to get pregnant.

  • DON'T DO IT! Two of my friends have gotten pregnant this way thinking they were being smart! Guys precum, which you can still get pregnant by. Use a condom to lower you chances! The are cheaper then diapers! lol

  • IMO, I think it feels better w/o a condom... but I think there is still a risk involved even if the guy doesn't finish inside me, so I don't know how much safer exactly it is vs. if he did finish inside, if that's what you mean?! :o)

  • Im in the same situation. Girl I'm seeing is on birth control. I still pull out just in case. Its sort of the only opinion. I absolutely can not get off with a condom... I can't even feel anything it sucks.

  • As long as you take the pills every day around the same time on a consistent basis, your chances of becoming pregnant are very small.

    • Thanks!

  • I love being able to finish inside of a girl without a condom, but I use them all of the time when the girl is not on birth control.

  • As a man you NEVER EVER EVER EVER! have unprotected sex with a woman unless you are 100% ready to have a child with that woman. Men have no reproductive rights but we bare the responsibility for us and the woman.

  • The pill is only about 98% effective... That's a one in fifty chance of it failing. Still pretty risky, and pulling out is no guarantee.

  • it personally feels better without the condom

  • Present birth control pills are much safe. My wife is on pill - we decided to use it just after few days of our marriage. We find sex without condom much more pleasurable and satisfying. We always finish inside, keep connected enough long after finishing inside and many times we start second and third round without withdrawing my P*. Please do not do with anyone just for pleasure, do it with your man only. You will not get pregnant - you may get infection doing with many.

    • Yes, my boyfriend and I have been together for over two years, he is the only one I am sexually active with, as well as him. We've partaken in sexual intercourse w/o a condom before, however he did place a condom on before he finished. We both want to have unprotected since it is WAY more enjoyable, however there's still a worry in the back of my mind. Thanks for the advice!

    • Do your comment mean - he pull out before finishing and putting condom on to finish? This is like a sudden break on joyful journey. I never like it. Man almost always get some small quantity of pre come just before penetration as lubricant and it also contain some small quantity of sperms.

  • My opinion is still don't do it. There are women who get accidentally pregnant on those.

    As well, I would always advise other men to wear condoms at all times - there are a lot of girls who lie about this sh*t and deliberatly get pregnant, then pretend that it was all an accident. I've known quite a few, including an ex who admitted to trying that on me. Knowing that there are girls who'd do that scares the sh*t out of me.

    • Holy sh*t, that is really scary. There are crazy girls out there, you're right. & there are guys who will sneak holes in the condoms or somehow fake to putting one on (so I've heard once). Ask your girl to show you the pack, too! But thank you for the advice.

    • Yeah I've heard of guys like that as well, arseholes.