Oral sex--who goes first?

[peace-love-couture]

From your experience or in your relationship, who receives oral sex/gets fingered first? Guy or girl? I give first, get fingered after or while giving.

[cun7n1nja]

With past experiences, I was used to giving first [though not necessarily to finish if we were planning on having sex shortly after], and then sometimes getting, before sex.

In my current relationship, it's pretty even, or we'll go back and forth. Or sometimes he'll finger me [vaginally and sometimes anally] while I go down on him first. It really just varies with this guy, lol.

[queenofpeen]

I usually give first, but only because I genuinely want to. Plus, most of the guys I date are really shy and I become the initiator in most situations :P

[peace-love-couture]

This is random & I'm not trynna be creepy but you're like really pretty. (sorry I just never pay attention to avatars). Not trying to be creepy :P

[queenofpeen]

Not creepy at all :3

[archer86]

She IS pretty. A compliment on a woman's attractiveness should never be received with negativity. As an unattractive man, I would prefer compliments over insults and rejections any day. Had I not been 20 years her senior, I...er...um...in any case, her man BETTER be good with her!

[queenofpeen]

Well, I have the right to react negatively to a compliment if it's inappropriate (like a sexual compliment from a stranger). Cat calls on the street are a good example.

[pepper01]

ive never did it but personally id rather do it first than lay back and enjoy him doing me lol

[amameninas]

The girls always receives and comes first.

1. Chivalrous.

2. She remains aroused for a while after orgasm and that will make her more enthusiastic in doing her part. If we come first, we lose interest and will do a poor job for you.

[JustAnOpinion]

Usually it's decided over a game of rock paper scizzors

[JustAnOpinion]

Hey, thanks for the BA honor!

[peace-love-couture]

No problem grasshopper

[archer86]

Whomever gets their undies off first wins the initiative! I usually end up going last!

[Phoenix1991]

i tend to finger when they are ready and continue to do so till they are comfortable with me going down on her then she can repay me later.

[Pebyron]

I always do it

She never does

But that's because I'm a giver

[gonyr]

damn bro, you gotta tell her to get on that. I mean its great that your a giver but sh*t, its only fair

[Pebyron]

It doesn't really matter to me If she does I won't stop her But I won't ask

[gonyr]

i prefer to do the girl first, that way when I'm getting blown I can just relax and not worry about anything

[DocClassic]

im pretty sure its standard for the guy to get first. there are some girls who get embarrassed if a guy goes down there, but far fewer guys who feel this way

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

it depends on the guy I'm with XD

[cavmanier]

guy

[AlexCab]

I enjoy giving it first, and I'm pretty good at it ;)

[taster]

I give first almost every time...and love the hands but not the lips (or the teeth...Yee!)..O:O

[John83]

I have usually given first, but sometimes my girlfriend will give me oral first, too. I get really turned-on by doing it, so I usually go down on her not long after we start foreplay.

[JennieF]

Me, usually.