Oral sex with a condom...

i feel bad because I know it doesn't feel the same but there's so many std's out there and it's too easy to get them. how do I let him know I want to do it with a condom on without disappointing him?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • WHY ARE YOU JUST HALF SMART? So you know what you can get, isn't that enough for you to back off until the day you find someone who you love and can trust before bobbin on his knob? DISAPPOINTING HIM! F**k him, do what you know is right and if he doesn't respect that good riddins to him!

    GIRLS GIRLS GIRLS: Quit thinking you have to make mister wonderful so happy by pleasing him sexually. If he can't be happy and fulfilled just looking at your beautiful face, being with you, able to have good fun with you, then dump the dummy! That cutesy face of his is only skin deep and it doesn't make him a man!

    • I agree completely ... we woman tend to think about them first and that's why we are always in hte second place for then !!! f*** him!!!!!! he has to respect you!!!!

    • I don't know where you came from, but I love you hun!!!! Someone else with a brain that works. Isn't it pathetic some of the stuff you read on this site especially by these kids. I keep thinking and hoping that most of it is them just pulling our chains, and not something they have done or plan on doing. Unfortunatly if you read the news it tends to make you think these things are happening. Yesterday Yahoo News: STD's are now a record numbers!!!! HOW SAD

    • Part of what makes sex good is pleasing the person you're being intimate with and making them feel good. it's not a matter or putting him first or putting myself first its about being equals with each other. because I want to give oral with a condom means that I respect myself but I also respect him at least I'm being cautions and taking things into consideration. because a girl is being considerate of a guy doesn't mean she's stupid or doesn't love herself or any of those things.

  • Just put it on him, tell him no bj without protection, whatever is best for you. You are perfectly right to be safe as possible. And if he can't take that, well, that's his loss.

  • Just put it on him. Don't ask, just have one in hand. Try putting it on using your lips, he will love it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • personally, I wouldn't mind. I would just be greatful to be getting a blowjob. I've never had a BJ with a condom, but even if it didn't feel as good, it would probably last a little longer. which is good lol. just tell him that is what you prefer and that's what's going to happen. I don't know if it would make you feel any more comfortable, but it is pretty simple to get him tested for STDs. whether or not that makes a difference is up to you, just remember its your decision, not his. but I highly doubt he would turn down a blowjob over having to wear a condom. no sane guy would.

  • There's really no way to know if you'll be disappointing him, but if he won't accept being safe then that's his loss.

    • Oral sex? if you can't trust him, don't do it!!!! hahaha :) or....just be honest. "I really really prefer with condom! " so simple!!!! ;) I don't think he would feel that bad about it....if so, well...that's his loss!!! :-P or make up some story......for example...."I saw form the internet,,,,about this case....and etc....it was horrible even to see through pictures..... :-P so I am afraid now...... :)" can you get my....point????? ;)

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  • aww you guys who answered the question are really good guys

  • Just hand it to him.

    P.S.: Something tasty, okay?

  • there's no way to not disappoint him with that news

    but you're the one giving the blowjob, you're the one in control.

  • I've never done oral with one, so I wouldn't know the difference, but I'd be cool with it if the girl wanted to use one.

  • Im just throwing this out there, Condoms stop sperm, not stds.

    • They also help prevent STIs. Why do you think other forms of contraception reiterate the point that things like oral birth control and diaphragms, etc don't protect against STIs and then recommend the use of a condom? They aren't 100% effective, but hey, nothing is.

    • Condoms stop STD's

  • like they said... you need 2 b protected and um if he don't want a condom then screw him... is he worth for you 2 get a std.. I don't think so..

  • it won't dissapoint him... if it does he doesn't deserve getting head