Sounds like your not all wet & warmed up yet before he jams the whole thing in there. I'm kinda hung and after I lost my virginity I had the same issues with various girlfriends. The correct answer is lube and more foreplay. That wall is probably the muscles in your vag not relaxing to accommodate him.
And yes if your already big on the lube and the foreplay you will get used to his size eventually. But most likely your guys just jumping the gun and jamming things in there before its time hence the pain.
You need to try being ontop and easing down onto him progressively a little bit at a time until its all in instead of letting him jam it in.0 0 0 0hahah well its only if he puts my legs over my head that's the only time it hurts. other than that I'm fine with it so I don't think its the foreplay thing...
Had this experience with my partner in certain positions. Its called 'bottoming out'
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i have this all the time and my boyfriend says he feels a "wall" too. you could have endometriosis which can cause deep pain penetration during sex or he could be hitting your cervix. if you have bad period cramps every month definataly get checked for endometriosis. you can add me as a friend too and we can chat if you want more info :)
0 0 0 0i would love to add you! and I don't have bad pain like every month but I do have it like at least 2 a year which has been going on for almost 2 years now. but I did get it checked out and doctors couldn't find anything wrong with me. so I don't know but thanks so much!
Yes there can be pain for either one during different types of sexual positions or going to fast etc.
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0 3Sounds like he's hitting your cervix. It certain positions, I hit my girlfriend's and it hurts her, so we generally avoid those positions.
0 0 0 0Certain positions go deeper than others. Legs over your shoulder, the lotus position, sometimes doggy. Some girls like this and can actually orgasm from it, and some find it too uncomfortable. All about the angle. Very common. You may like it eventually, but probably not based on your current reaction. I'm sure you will be able to figure it out with practice!
0 0 0 0Theres a few girls that have there hymen regenerate on its own you don't necessarily bleed but it is supposedly just as painfull like when you lose your virginity
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