Penis is sensitive while receiving head?

[jacobt20]

Hi Whenever my girl gives me oral its not really enjoyable and at times during its sensitive? Feels fine while having sex. She said she's had no problem with other guys which annoys her cause she loves giving head. I'm 5 1/2 inch's and above normal in girth and uncircumcised. Its mostly uncomfortable when the head rubs on her teeth she said this happens cause its to large in girth and can't help it. When she circles her tongue round the head I can't really feel it. Just wondering what's going on as oral should be enjoyable. One more thing while having sex most times I give her over 5 & once 11 orgasms is this unusual for a girl? I wouldn't know since she was my first.

[Firmwear]

It does sound somewhat unusual that oral doesn't feel good to you - especially if sex feels fine. I know she was your first intercourse, but have you ever received oral from another partner that did feel good? If so, it could be her that her tongue is somewhat rough (this can happen to the taste buds if she's had a lot of salt, etc.)? If she's scraping you with her teeth, this can obviously cause discomfort as well. It may very well be that you are too big (or her mouth is too small - or both) for her to cover her teeth with her lips. In that case, it may be difficult for you to receive oral. You might try having her just suck on the head of your penis down to the frenulum. See if that feels good. If that fails, it might just not work out receiving oral from her.

As for your orgasm question, 11 is very unusual during one sexual encounter, 5 less so if she's really turned on. Either way, it means you're doing your job well.

[jacobt20]

Hi no I've never received oral from anyone else. I think I don't enjoy it very much cause every time she gives it to me now I'm always on edge & not relaxed thinking it will be sensitive & really trying not to go soft cause it did one of the first times which made her quite unhappy.

[Firmwear]

Not sure what to tell you. Can you describe what she's doing? Concentrating on the head, shaft, etc? What part doesn't feel good and where? I agree that you'll never enjoy it if you're now on edge thinking it's going to feel uncomfortable. You've got to diagnose what it is she's doing/not doing and fix it or I think you'll always have problems and miss out on one of the great aspects of foreplay. That or just say that BJs aren't for you.

[Annette83]

Don't feel awkward about this. Neither of you is at fault. You just need to experiment and find out what works. Try not to sound critical... Make it light-hearted. Maybe try saying stuff like, "I'm proud that I'm so much thicker than the other guys you've dated... I'm going to need you to try this instead...". Make sure to also say stuff like, "my friends are so jealous that you love doing this".