Penis wouldn't go in?

Me and my boyfriend were going to have sex. We got all ready, then he tried to go inside me but he just...couldn't go in :/ and then his erection went, so he just said ''We'll try again some other time'' and now things feel pretty awkward xD We're both virgins so we don't really know much about how these things work xD Does the penis have to go in the vagina at some weird angle? I swear you just push it in the sex hole and eventually in it goes :L I've heard the more a girl is turned on the easier it is too, but I'm not sure... What factors make it easier for the penis to go in? :L Thank you! :D
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  • First time is the hardest since you haven't had sex before. however, please tell me you are using some sort of birth control unless you are planning on getting pregnant. Anytime a penis goes in - you have a chance to get pregnant. Even if you think he is going to 'pull out' you can get pregnant from pre-cum and often if you have a young boyfriend - he won't be able to control it anyways.

    It is not a weird angle but the first time for you will be tough - once you have been through it once - it will be easy from there.

  • the first time a girl allows something to pentrate her sex hole, as you call it, her muscles tend to naturly tighten up, to stop the penitration. Have your boy friend slowly, not forsefully, nor fully pentrate you, and go at easy, it will happen. You guys go on line there are plenty of web pages that will explain this. have safe sex

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  • Interesting.

    Let me know how this turns out, because I am a curious virgin.

  • Ya use a condom. Since you probably don't have lube have him spit in his hand and then rub on the condom (or you do it, hotter) right as he is about to go in. That little extra moistness should help.

  • It's possible that you are mentally just not ready for it yet. A woman's subconscious has a tremendous influence on her body, much more than a man's on his body. Wait and try again is my suggestion.

  • Taking a girl's virginity can be awkward sometimes, especially if he is a virgin also. I remember my first time and it was hers too, we had a hard time *cough* breaking her in. The girls after her were easier to "take" in my opinion because Iat least I knew what I was doing. If she isn't relaxed (and that's difficult for her, I know) then it makes the first time that much more... tricky. He should spend some time with you before trying to enter you, he should "play" with you and make you feel more comfortable. You will definitely want to be very aroused and very moist that will help tremendously in your efforts to take him. I have always found missionary to be the best way to actually accomplish the goal at hand. Depending on the girl it does take quite a bit of pressure on his part, all girls are different. You might find store bought lubricant helpful especially for your first time if you cannot relax or are not very wet yourself. Good luck and be patient.

  • Use lube and make sure you're in the missionary position

    It makes it easiest for you

  • Lube it up

  • You have to use a bit of force with a virgin.