Plastic Surgery = Insecurity?

Do you believe plastic surgery means insecurity? Is it always such a bad thing? I for instance,am 16,36 D(cup wise) and my breasts aren't exactly perky,I would love to have a breast lift when I'm older,but it seems as though whenever I mention it on here,people give me hell about it,why?
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  • I think people who work out, dress well, and brush their teeth are insecure.

    If you are 600 lbs, guys should like you just the way god made you.

    And if you have a 6 inch mole on your face, you should leave it there, if guys care about it then they are just shallow pigs.

    You should love yourself just the way you are.

    Plastic surgery has nothing to do with meeting a certain standard that most men find attractive. Not at all. It just means your a shallow insecure fool. And if you do it then the majority of men on the planet will think you are attractive, and who wants that kind of attention anyways? I mean lots of men liking you? Including nice guys and guys you might want to marry?

    Nah, that's a terrible idea. Don't conform to the ideal standard of beauty, stay fat and ugly. There are more than pleanty of men out there that like 400 lb women, with giant moles on their faces. (which aren't cancerous)

    Dont believe me? Well.. drive down around your local city and tell me how many strip clubs there are with women who are over 300 lbs with saggy boobs? Then goto your local grocery store and look at the magazines of the hottest women celebs.. ill bet most of them are 300 lbs with giant moles on their faces.

    Wait.. they aren't?

    Weird.

    Why in the world are ad agencies making giant billboard with thin women, some of which who have had plastic surgery? Shouldn't they make advertisements with fat women? I mean that's strange.

    I wonder why that is.

    What you might want to do is cut off a limb so that men who are attracted to amputees will like you. But then that's the minority isn't it.

    Heidi Montag= looks better than she did before. Not so much in the face in my opinion, but definitely in the body.

    Jessica Simpson= Looks by far better.

    Brittany Spears= looks better.

    The rest are primarily examples of bad plastic surgery. That's like saying you shouldn't ever eat food ever again, because you went to one restaurant and they served wet garbage instead of actual food.

    People give you hell about it because they can't afford it. And if you are the hot woman of the group, do they want you to get even hotter? Yeah, that's just what your other girl friends want, even more men to ignore them and talk to you instead.

    Bottom line is if you are single you should definitely do it. Its going to increase your chances of finding a man. Most men like a particular standard, and plastic surgery will get you closer to that standard.

    If your married than you could do it for your husband to make him happier. But first consult him. IF he doesn't care (and make sure he's not lying because if you ask him "do I need a boob job?" he's probably going to say no to avoid going into the dog house.. like most loser husbands act.)

    If you can afford it, and you want to do it then do it.

    • It's not like I walk around with my boobs hanging out,all I want is a breast lift and why are you bringing up the media?Are you like every other person who lives their lives around the media? And what the hell did Jessica Simpson have done?Her boobs?or her lips?

    • The media is an example of what the majority of men find physically attractive. If you get plastic surgery it gets you closer to that standard. Even if its just a breast lift. The media is also readily available for anyone to see as an example of what most men find attractive. What am I going to do? tell you to fly to a European library and find a hidden book that tells you how to be hot? I don't think so. Not when you can just turn on the tv. She had lips done, and a breast lift.

    • And her sister Ashley looks by far better with her nose job.

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  • 1. not always, genetics is a bitch, if you feel that you don't look how you feel inside, then I'd say its ok if you really want to

    2. no

    are you sure they are not that perky? perhaps you may be getting the wrong idea from videos you've seen. since your not anon and 16, I don't think you'll be showing us them in their current state.

    also, since you are 16, think about it, but wait until your about 20-22 when your body stop growing completely to make a choice.

    watch this nice video I found on how the whole thing works, (step 11 gets a little gruesome =p), the video is helpful but ignore the other stuff, they just say do it with us

    link

    consider the results, the cost, the healing period, the scars, and the things it could affect (like breast feeding) before rushing into things. also think about if you really need such a thing and if your breast are hot as is

    • I'm sure my breasts aren't perky and I plan on not breast feeding and there's no point in me staying insecure until I'm 20 or 22

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  • I believe it often does mean that you're insecure, but what's so wrong with that?

    We all get insecure. We all know it. So if you wanna do something about it, go right ahead.

    Screw what everyone else says, you're the one who's going to be living with yourself everyday, not them. You may as well do whatever you want to do so that you can be happy with yourself.

    It's good that you're not thinking about it immediately though, plastic surgery is a big step and I do think it's a good idea to do A LOT of thinking beforehand.

    But if you still feel the same when you're older, I don't see why you shouldn't.

    People give you hell because they like to pick at your insecurities for whatever reason; maybe they envy you, maybe they wish they could do it, or maybe they just don't understand.

    Regardless, there are always going to be people who will give you hell about something. You might as well do what makes you happy without worrying what others think.

    • Thank you

    • Plastic surgery doesn't fix anyones insecurities though. If you're insecure, the root is a lot deeper than anything they can do with your appearance. You need to do the work to grow more confident in yourself. QA, you're only 16, and confidence comes with age. Chances are that when you're in your 20s you'll feel a lot better about yourself. Well I hope so anyway.

  • it depends. plastic surgery is not limited to cosmetics and plastic surgery is needed for people with deformities that actually make it hard for them to live like people with cleft lip or my friend who's breasts hurt her back and plans on getting a breast reduction if losing weight doesn't help.

    cosmetic surgery is definitely due to insecurity and vanity. there would be no reason to go under surgery if you loved your self image.

    btw, the surgery leaves permanent scars and is expensive to have. you might want to do your research

    • I realize,that and I can make a decision on my own

  • Dude, do what you want, if it will make you feel better about yourself then why not? who is anyone to tell you that you're not allowed to feel good about your apearance? Go ahead hun, do what you want :)

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  • no plastic surgery = UGLY, FAKE, BARBIE DOLL. its not cool at all and its not a one time thing like most think you have to go in for them to do touch up ALL the time. don't sound like a fun thing to me. plus any boob jobs means no more feeling in the nipples. so if that's a turn on spot ur screwed.

  • All you need is a good bra surgery is not needed unless you're in a accident or something like that. People are too vain.

    • No,I wear "good bras" and they obviously aren't helping.I'm happy to be vain:D thanks

  • Plastic Surgery isn't always a bad thing you know. Some people are car accidents and need to get plastic surgery to mend scars in visible areas of the body.

    It can be a necessity or not necessary at all. In your case, it may be necessary, here's why...

    A) Your blessed, your breasts are pretty big, but your back is starting to hurt because of all the weight you have to carry in your chest. Regardless of them being perky or not, I think a breast reduction would be a great surgery to have, so that you stay healthy. Let's face it, you need your back to be healthy so you can go to work everyday when your older.

    B) Bigger Breasts are only going to sag as you get older.

    C) You won't feel as awkward anymore walking around, as guys will now look into your eyes when talking to you.

    Plastic Surgery is considered an insecurity...IF and ONLY IF, the person getting the surgery selects B and C as the primary reasons for surgery.

    I'm a strong believer that plastic surgery should only be performed for health reasons. However, in your case...the other options are alright because you are fulfilling the main option in A.

    Your health is your priority. Many choose plastic surgery because they are worried about what everyone is going to think of them or how they will be judged. That's stupid. You are who you are...and the people judging you were made a different way,too. So who are they to pass judgement on you like that?

    Insecurity:

    Heidi Montag

    Michael Jackson

    Jessica Simpson

    Brittany Spears

    Joan Rivers

    Marie Osmond

    Secure people who may need plastic surgery:

    -Health problems

    -Scars

    -Injuries

    -Birth Defects

    Good Luck!

  • i think you should be happy in the body your given. I have things that I could change sure but then I wouldn't be me I feel. this is who I am and why would I want to be different. I'm only me I can't be anything else.

  • It won't change you as a person, even if you feel its important to you, bit self obessed. Most guys don't really care about how perky your breasts are only you do, lots of better things you can do with the money care, holiday, home etc... but if it really means that much to you do it, you live your life not anyone else, who cares what anyone else thinks...