Please help me? My boyfriend wants me to give him a hand job but I don't know how.

My boyfriend wants me to give him a hand job but I don't know how can someone please help me with how to do it. By the way this is my first time.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • The first time for me, I had no idea what I was doing, but I'll try to help ya out.(:

    okay, [this may vary, but it works for my boyfriend]

    just grab it, obviously, &start semi-slow going up& down.

    after a little bit, pick up the pace& really just go as fast as you can.

    slightly rotating your hand while going up& down.

    once he cums,& this sends my guy off the edge, lick it off the tip of his d**k.

    it'll drive him crazy(:

    i hope I helped& Good Luck!(:

  • basically put your hand around it and move it up and down. hold it firmly, but not too tight..and use lotion or lube or something. if you don't have any you can spit on your hand and use that, that's what I did my first time but it was really gross

    and don't worry, its sort of scary the first time but once you do it you'll get the hang of it. good luck!

  • Well different guys like different things. Just tell him you've never done it before and ask him to tell you what he likes. Even if you have done it before like I said it really depends on the guy what he likes kinds of like let him guide you. Don't be embarrassed or scared to ask at least you know you'll do exactly as he likes.

    • Absolutely. perhaps ask him to show you how he does it. he will probably be over the moon that your wanting to give him a HJ or more later. IMy first sexual partner was scared but after a couple of times I very gently took her hand and showed her. but have fun and enjoy it

Most Helpful Guys

  • What you can do is start to stroke very slowly then gradually get a little faster. while doing that get a slight twisting motion while going up and down with your hand. squeeze it and put a little pressure on his penis. if he wants to you could even spit on it a little bit to make a personal lubricate which would make it more pleasurable. keep the up and down stroking motion the whole time you do this. this may be a little gross but if you are able look some more info up on the internet.

  • nothing particular involved, just do it, I mean there's certain techniques, but all you gotta do is do what we do, when we do it, ya know?

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  • Just use enough lube, and stroke, don't pull. Otherwise, there isn't much you can do wrong.

  • She may have never seen a guy masturbate, dave... question asker, get some lube and rub it up and down. Lotion works fine.

    • Id also add that when you are rubbing up and down, start to rotate your wrist a little. Vary the speed too. Most guys will let you know what works for them...