Poking the wrong hole Does it bother you or not?

[titoloco]

Does it bother you? if your your boyfriend is really in a frenzy for sex ,and just takes control; pushes you in the bed while madly kissing you, and does his part in the foreplay because he's possessed by the moment, then he just flips you over for doggy and pokes your butt hole. Without asking?

[samhradh_leannan]

Yes, it bothers me, because anal sex is really painful for me. An accidental bump is totally forgivable, but full on penetration would be really painful and upsetting for me. I would literally be driven to tears by that. BUT with me, that really isn't likely to happen by accident, unless the guy is pushing really hard and paying absolutely no attention.

[Anonymous]

Like an accidental bump or actually entering me? The latter would be unacceptable.

[celestialdaeva]

this

[Opinion Owner]

You could seriously injure a girl doing that.

[samhradh_leannan]

Very true. Many people enjoy anal sex when it is done correctly, but there is a huge potential for it to be painful and unsafe. Doing it by accident without proper preparation is REALLY something to avoid.

[Claireluvskaren]

It would be nearly impossible to penetrate an ass hole by accident, the anus is to tight, and with zero lube a penis would not ooops slide in. He might miss my vagina or pop out during thrusting, and miss on getting back in but no way is he getting in my ass with out lube and asking first.

[WavyCherry]

Um yes I would be bothered.

[Anonymous]

Yes, you can't just stick it in my ass without permission.

[Anonymous]

I don't necessarily get pissy about it, but it bothers me...usually because it hurts : /